Whisper1(Linda) Thread #5 of 2014

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1Whisper1
Edited: May 3, 2014, 1:04 pm

Welcome to thread number five. Spring is here in all the lovely glory. After a difficult winter, how very wonderful to see flowers blooming

2Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:18 pm

Here is a list of books recently read:

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #52

Hector Protector and As I went Over the Water by Maurice Sendak
Sendak never ceases to amaze!

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #53

The Most Wonderful Doll in the World by Phyllis McGinley with illustrations of Helen Stone
This 1951 Caldecott honor book was a joy to read. With illustrations similar to the Dick and Jane books, this took me right back to my childhood days of early reading.

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #33

Everywhere by Bruce Brooks
Written by an author who has a long string of awards for his YA writing, including a 1985 Newbery Honor, and numerous Boston Globe-Horn Book Awards, ALA Best Books for Young Adults, and School Library Journal Best Books of 1990, this is a marvelous story of a boy and his wonderful relationship with his grandfather.

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #34

The Anatomy of Wings by Karen Foxlee
When a 14 year old family member dies, heartbroken, her family spins out of control as they continue to sort through all reasons why her behaviors were so destructive and their inability to stop her tremendously poor decision making process.

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #35

Autumn Journey by Priscilla Cummings
I find such enjoyment when I discover an author who writes as well as Cummings, thus calling me to continue to read all of her books.
This is a book of a wonderful descriptive story of a young boy and his grandfather. Dealing with difficult subjects such as unemployment, hunting, gun control and death, this book, small in pages and large in meaning and depth, is a must read!

3richardderus
May 3, 2014, 1:35 pm

Hi Linda!

4beeg
May 3, 2014, 2:24 pm

helloooo Linda!

5gennyt
May 3, 2014, 2:48 pm

Lovely, lovely flowers, Linda!

6connie53
May 3, 2014, 3:32 pm

Happy New Thread, Linda!

7cyderry
May 3, 2014, 3:40 pm

Hey, Spring brings smiles, hope and wishes of health improvement!

8scaifea
Edited: May 3, 2014, 7:44 pm

Happy New Thread, Linda!

Forgive me for not remembering, but have you read The Year of Billy Miller yet? I finished it recently and loved it, and of course immediately thought of you.

9Smiler69
May 3, 2014, 8:25 pm

Happy New Thread Linda, and wishing you a beautiful month of May!

10tututhefirst
May 3, 2014, 8:39 pm

>1 Whisper1: Linda - what a wonderful way to welcome people and celebrate that Spring seems at last to be awakening.

11tloeffler
May 3, 2014, 10:26 pm

Hello, My Friend! Hope all is going well for you!

12tymfos
May 3, 2014, 10:27 pm

Hi, Linda! What a lovely new thread! Happy Spring!

13Whisper1
May 4, 2014, 2:04 am

Hello! It is so good to see posts and be able to take a few minutes to say thank you!

Amber, I read The Year of Billy Miller. It didn't resonate with me. I think I missed something. Please tell me why you liked it. I'm running in place these days and I'm so sorry to be out of touch with LT. I have some illustrated books to send your way. I hope to get them out this week.

Smiles to all!

14Whisper1
Edited: May 4, 2014, 2:21 am

It was a lovely day. I worked and accomplished a lot. Then, daughter Breanna went to lunch with me, bringing along her nephew. My son in law is an identical twin. His brother's little boy, Mason, looks so much like both Mike and Mason's daddy.

This four year old guy is so neat. Sadly, his father is out of work. I thought he might need clothes, so Bre, Will and I took him shopping. When Will said we were going to get some clothes, he said "Hey, Mr. Will, look at me, I already have clothes on, I'm not naked!"

After the clothes, we bought a car that he choose. He found a bright orange hat that he loved, placed it on his head and smiled all the way to the front of the line. To see this cute little guy wearing his new hat, truck in hand, huge smile on his face, made my day.

He is spending the night with Bre, Mike and Kayla. When Bre called to say goodnight, Mason was asleep with his hat on his little head, truck tucked under one arm.

This evening we went to dinner with our 84 year old delightful neighbors. We are quite close to them and conversation and laughter always flows easily. We also watched the very exciting Kentucky Derby! What a splendid event.

Life is ever so much better with young and old to love!

15gennyt
May 4, 2014, 4:58 am

I'm glad you had such a lovely day, Linda!

16scaifea
May 4, 2014, 8:02 am

>13 Whisper1: I'm sorry that the Henkes book didn't works so well for you, Linda. I liked it because, as I spend time in Charlie's school and get to know the students there, plus knowing what little uncertainties and nervousnesses Charlie has, the book seemed to mirror those very realistically - a Henry Huggins for this generation. And I admit that I'm surprised that I liked it at all, as I'm not usually a fan of Henkes' picture books.

17connie53
May 4, 2014, 8:03 am

That sounds like a really happy day, Linda!

18Carmenere
May 4, 2014, 8:32 am

"Life is ever so much better with young and old to love" Well said, Linda! You and Will are the perfect example of by sharing with others you in turn receive so much back. It sounds like it was a beautiful day for all. Hope your Sunday is relaxing and all about you!

19msf59
May 4, 2014, 8:34 am

Happy New thread, Linda! Love the Spring topper! We need warmth and color! Hope you are having a good weekend.

20Donna828
May 4, 2014, 11:45 am

Hi Linda, you have a lovely new spring thread here with some of your uplifting stories to match the colorful flowers in your thread topper. I am going to try to keep up with you. I have fallen so far behind on LT.

21kidzdoc
May 4, 2014, 11:50 am

Happy Sunday, Linda!

22ronincats
May 4, 2014, 11:52 am

I hope your Sunday is every bit as lovely as your Saturday was, Linda. I so glad that Spring is finally blossoming there. I'll be in anticipation of your appointment Friday all week long!

23laytonwoman3rd
May 4, 2014, 3:05 pm

Hey, there! Spring is trying hard to take over here, but can't quite make it. Easter Sunday was lovely, but otherwise we've had mostly raw windy days, and one almost-too-warm day.

24brenpike
May 4, 2014, 10:27 pm

Linda, Nice to read about your terrific Saturday . . .

25AuntieClio
May 5, 2014, 1:04 am

When Will said we were going to get some clothes, he said "Hey, Mr. Will, look at me, I already have clothes on, I'm not naked!"

This made me giggle!

And I love the bright colors in your thread topper.

26ffortsa
May 5, 2014, 9:26 am

Lovely flowers up top, Linda. And that four-year-old must be adorable.

It's lovely how kids can get into a sort of fantasy of toys, isn't it? I once gave my nephew a plastic hard-hat from Hoover Dam. My brother said he wore it home in the car, through dinner, and while asleep that night! Such commitment!

I hope today is a light one in terms of your chronic pain. May 9th isn't far away. Fingers crossed.

27thornton37814
May 5, 2014, 8:31 pm

Hi Linda! The flowers are lovely. Just dropping by as I'm catching up before getting behind again. Hopefully I can settle down for a few weeks after I get back from this trip.

28applebook1
May 6, 2014, 9:37 pm

Spring does seem to be quite lovely over there..

29cyderry
May 8, 2014, 2:18 pm

Good luck tomorrow, my friend. I'll be praying for you.

30Whisper1
May 8, 2014, 8:33 pm

I feel so out of touch with my LT friends. I've been working long hours before fiscal year end close. And, the semester never seemed to end. I lock the door at 5:00, and at 5:30-6:00, there is loud banging from students who are late in paper submissions.

Classes ended a few weeks ago. Some students who did not belong in the building, used it for study purposes. Somehow students got into the building a few nights (they rode the elevator to the top floor, hid out) and then let friends in after hours. One night the cleaning lady kicked them out. The next day the entire room had chalk ground into the carpet and there was writing outside on the lovely stone building.
I swear that I am a babysitter to a bunch of brats. I think that community or state college has students with more class and respect. It costs approximately $62,000 per year to attend Lehigh and some act like savages!
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I haven't read a lot lately and this saddens me. I deeply appreciate the visits here even though I haven't returned the visit.

We leave for Thomas Jefferson tomorrow at 6:00 a.m. We were going to get a hotel tonight, but none are close enough to the hospital, and parking was limited. So, we will leave very early for my 9:20 appointment in case there is traffic on the turnpike or schuylkill and hopefully will arrive early.

I have so much hope for this visit. Mainly, I want to ask about mobility after the surgery. If most of my neck and back is fused with rods, I want to be able to turn my head side/side...and of course, be able to drive. I understand that basically this is a major reconstruction of my neck and spine. Ah, I fear I obsess too much.

Thanks again to all. Words do not suffice to express my gratitude.

31ronincats
May 8, 2014, 8:43 pm

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers all day tomorrow, Linda.

32scaifea
May 8, 2014, 9:16 pm

Yep, you'll be in my thoughts tomorrow, too, Linda!

33rosalita
May 8, 2014, 9:31 pm

I am also sending along my positive thoughts and good wishes to you, Linda, as you go into your appointment tomorrow. I so want that doctor to give you some good news!

34tututhefirst
May 8, 2014, 10:42 pm

LInda, I hope by the time you open and read this that you will have been to your appointment and come away with hopeful news for us. Please take it easy, get lots of rest and let Will continue to take good care of you. We are thinking of you and praying for good news.

35brenpike
May 8, 2014, 11:10 pm

Wishing you well . . .

36gennyt
May 9, 2014, 3:15 am

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Linda, as you head off for your appointment. I hope that this surgery will bring you the relief you long for and need.

37connie53
May 9, 2014, 5:54 am

Hi Linda, I'm sending my best wishes to you. I hope you will get answers to all your questions and the surgery will have the effect you want to have.

38laytonwoman3rd
May 9, 2014, 12:04 pm

I too hope that by the time you read this, you will know what can be done, and that there is a hopeful prognosis. And good grief, woman "obsess too much"???? Over reconstuction of your spine??? How could that not be the uppermost thing on your mind most of the time?

39Donna828
May 9, 2014, 12:56 pm

Linda, I am thinking of you and Will today as you learn more about the latest hope to end your pain. Don't worry about not keeping up here. I think you are in good company! At least I know I am continually behind.

40Smiler69
May 9, 2014, 1:40 pm

Linda, I'm thinking of you today as well. Hope your appointment goes well. I don't think you obsess too much at all, only that you have reasonable concerns, which would probably be the case for most people who are considering undergoing such a big intervention. Please don't worry about keeping up, it's nice that we can keep up with you on your own thread. The rest is just the cherry on the sundae. {{{hugs}}}

41tymfos
May 9, 2014, 4:42 pm

Linda, I've been thinking of you all day, hoping and praying for your appointment to go well. Don't worry about LT. Hugs!

42jolerie
May 9, 2014, 6:11 pm

Hi Linda! Just want to drop by and send you a hug and positive energy. Wishing you all the best!

43mckait
May 9, 2014, 7:33 pm

Sending much good energy your way, Linda!

44AuntieClio
May 9, 2014, 8:03 pm

Linda, hoping for all the best for you.

45Whisper1
May 9, 2014, 8:32 pm

Dear Friends:

Thanks for your kind outreach.

I'm home from Thomas Jefferson hospital where I spent three hours with surgeons. After consultations, I had a melt down, and going down the elevator, cried for a prolonged time (very unlike me.) Once again, Will was ever so kind and gentle. After navigating through Philadelphia traffic, we found a quiet place to rest, and then he gently asked about the sessions.

I am scared!

Basically, in order to correct my neck deformity, the third fusion surgery will be removed. The surgeon will operate anterior and then posterior. I'll be on an operating table that rotates. A halo will be in place to gently position the head at the proper level, a large posterior incision will occur and MY NECK WILL BE BROKEN, (this is the part that scares the bejesus out of me).

I will then undergo a osteotomy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0n69ylZKUL8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLNVhNmemT8
to correct the neck kyphosis. After this, I'll be fused from C7-T-5. Thus, the original two fusions at C4-5 and C5-7 will remain in place while all other areas will then be fused using cadaver bones.

There is a 1% chance of paralysis (This is a percentage I can live with!) and if needed, I'll be wearing a halo post surgery for ten - twelve weeks. Wearing the halo depends on if my disks can tolerate all the screws and hardware. Dr. Vacarro used the analogy of placing screws into sheet rock without anchoring the stud. The halo might be needed to provide stability post surgery.

I'm asking prayers. I deeply appreciate all the support received over these last years. This upcoming surgery will be the fifth surgery in four years. I pray that my 61 year old body can withstand the trauma and difficult recovery.

Thanks to all for your emotional support.

46ronincats
May 9, 2014, 8:45 pm

Oh, my dear Linda! I don't blame you for the melt-down one bit--this is major, MAJOR surgery. What you don't say is what will be the positive outcome, if everything goes well. Will you then be pain-free? Fully mobile (other than the 1% chance of paralysis)? In other words, do the EXPECTED positive outcomes outweigh the seriousness of the surgery?

{{{{{{{{{{{Linda}}}}}}}}}}}}}...

47AuntieClio
May 9, 2014, 9:10 pm

Of course you are scared Linda. Don't be sorry about the melt-down, crying is part of the process (and I hope you know that). I will keep you in my thoughts, thankful for Will and the Thomas Jefferson staff and surgeons. Go get 'em! *hugs*

48lkernagh
May 9, 2014, 11:11 pm

Based on that description, I completely understand why you are feeling scared about the procedure and while you are feeling scared, you have specialists who will be doing the procedure and it sounds like they have done a good job of keeping you fully informed of all that this will entail. From visiting your thread I know you are a resilient woman that has the strength to get through this with the support of your family and friends. Scared is a very normal reaction for you to be experiencing right now.

49wilkiec
May 10, 2014, 4:49 am

{{Linda}}

50connie53
May 10, 2014, 11:13 am

No wonder you are scared, Linda! Of course you are. Just keep faith in the surgeon. He was recommended to you because he is the best in this kind of surgeries. But the thought of such a complex one is scary so you are certainly allowed to have some melt-downs while waiting. Do you know when it takes place?

And you will certainly be in my thoughts!

51jnwelch
May 10, 2014, 1:04 pm

>45 Whisper1: Oh my goodness, that's a tough one, Linda. I'm glad you're in the hands of an expert, but wow, that's a lot to take on.

61 is young these days. But being scared is very understandable. That's one of the most complicated scenarios I've ever heard of. Is there rehab afterward? I'm not even sure how one would rehab something like that.

Sending lots of positive thoughts. I know the pain has been really difficult for you, so the eventual reduction of that is what we'll all be hoping for.

52Smiler69
May 10, 2014, 1:12 pm

Oh Linda, I feel for you so much right now. *big gentle hugs*

53drneutron
May 10, 2014, 1:36 pm

You definitely have our prayers!

54DeltaQueen50
May 10, 2014, 5:50 pm

Linda, this is a lot to take in and I can imagine how overwhelmed you must feel. You are so brave and have been living with pain for so long, I am praying this will finally be the answer you have been looking for.

55cushlareads
May 10, 2014, 7:54 pm

Hi Linda,

I'm thinking of you too. I really hope this surgery works. You are being so brave!

56rosalita
May 10, 2014, 8:00 pm

I can only echo what everyone else has said. That sounds like a whopper of a surgery and I am not at all surprised that is scaring you a bit. But you have an excellent surgeon and doctors like that don't propose things that they don't think have a realistic shot at working. I'm so glad you have Will with you for support, and Lilly too!

57tymfos
May 10, 2014, 8:04 pm

Hugs to you, Linda! It's easy to understand why you're scared. I''d be, too. Sending up prayers for you.

58kidzdoc
May 10, 2014, 8:14 pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you as well, Linda.

59qebo
May 10, 2014, 8:41 pm

>45 Whisper1: I am scared!
I can only imagine. On the plus side, three hours of consultations sounds thorough, if exhausting. Were you comfortable with the surgeons you talked with? Will they help you navigate insurance?

60richardderus
May 10, 2014, 8:42 pm

>45 Whisper1: Checking in, hoping for the best!

61PaulCranswick
May 10, 2014, 9:28 pm

Sometimes mere words seem insufficient, Linda. I have been following your 'progress' towards further surgery both here and on FB and two things stand out for me:

1 The brave positivity you have clung to throughout, and
2 The wonderful support you have in your helpmeet and soulmate, Will.

Have a wonderful Mother's Day comfortable in the bosom of the affection for you here in the group.

62gennyt
May 11, 2014, 4:27 am

I can't think of better words to add than those of everyone else who has already posted, Linda, so I'm just sending you a gentle (((hug))).

63-Cee-
May 11, 2014, 10:38 am

Wow. This is a major trial for you, Linda.
Try to remember the surgeon is experienced and confident. It appears you will be in good hands...
What is a once-in-a-lifetime frightening event for you is the specialty of your doctor who wants this to work for you.

Try not to think of the details too much. It's too scary. You are not responsible for the surgical outcome and your body (every cell) knows just what to do to heal - without being told.

You're already doing your part with courage and positive spirit. That's all you can do throughout the process.

I'm joining the community of those who care about you and will be praying for a miracle (which it seems you need about now!).

64msf59
May 11, 2014, 10:59 am



My prayers and thoughts are with you, Linda! Sounds like a major ordeal.

65jolerie
May 11, 2014, 1:13 pm

Linda, just adding in my hugs and prayers for you. May you have peace and courage to face the journey ahead and know that you have a whole community lifting you up! Happy Mother's weekend to you, my friend.

66mckait
May 11, 2014, 8:22 pm

>63 -Cee-: well said Cee... Linda, listen to her.. srsly.

67michigantrumpet
May 12, 2014, 9:25 am

Have been thinking of you and praying for you. If you recognize the amount of stress and anxiety you've been carrying throughout all of this, then the waterworks seem a natural result. Is there a time frame for when the surgery would take place?

{{{Hugs}}}

68Donna828
May 12, 2014, 10:02 am

Linda, I can only echo what others have said. You are in my prayers.

69ffortsa
May 12, 2014, 4:51 pm

Ay, that does sound scary. And disappointing, that the last surgery has to be undone.

Breaking your neck does also sound scary, although I'm sure the physician was talking about breaking the old fusion and not your spinal chord! Still, it sounds very dramatic, doesn't it?

Of course, you must tell us the dates and times and all that stuff, so we can cross all crossables for you.

The good news is that something can be done.

70countrylife
May 13, 2014, 8:31 am

Linda, I'm picturing you in a cushion of Thinger-prayers and Thinger-hugs, including mine.

71tymfos
May 14, 2014, 8:03 pm

>70 countrylife: Ditto what Cindy said!

72Whisper1
Edited: May 14, 2014, 11:11 pm

Thanks to all. I'm calmer now than last Friday. I called my wonderful surgeon who performed the previous three fusions. Yes, indeed, they will break my neck, but this is done to set the stage for reconfiguration of all that needs to happen, this is, of course done in a very controlled situation in order to set the place of alignment where it needs to be, and my neck, currently downwardly positioned will be gradually raised and locked in place.

I've come to realize that
a) I did not understand how seriously damaged/deformed my neck is/was. I simply thought that each surgery would correct it.
b) When I spoke to the surgeon at Thomas Jefferson, I realized he only takes severe cases. This was the wake up call for me, thus the meltdown.

and now
c) I am VERY glad that all this mess of a neck can be corrected and that we live in an age when technology and skill meld together to work miracles.

73Whisper1
May 14, 2014, 11:11 pm

To relieve stress, I've purchase a lot of books in the last few week, including many at a local book sale today. As usually, I'm wondering where to put them. Right now, they are in the garage. Thank God I don't consume alcohol in proportion to the amount of books I buy. I would be in BIG trouble.

Now that the semester is over, I hope to have more time for LT. I feel lost without checking threads and learning what is happening in the lives of so many people I care about.

Thanks again to all for hanging in there with me!

74Storeetllr
May 14, 2014, 11:29 pm

What a huge thing the surgery is that you'll be going through ~ no wonder you felt scared and had a meltdown ~ but it sounds like, once it's done, you will be in so much better shape and able to enjoy life without pain. Adding my prayers and hugs to everyone else's.

75Whisper1
Edited: May 15, 2014, 12:09 am

For $30.00 this evening, I purchased the following at a local library book sale:

1) The Fifth Woman by Henning Mankell. Recently I'm watching netflix episodes of Wallender and I'm hooked!
2) Sex With Kings by Eleanor Herman
3) The Absolutist by John Boyne. I'm currently reading Crippen and enjoy Boyne's writing style.
4) Tuesday Night at the Blue Moon by Debbie Fuller Thomas
5) Personal Reflections of an Historian by Stephen Ambrose. I tremendously enjoy the many PBS programs which feature the historical research of Ambrose.
6) The Art of the Shakers by Michael Horsham. The images are simplistic and lovely
7) Discovering American Folk Art by Cynthia V.a. Schaffner...American Folk Art is one of my favorite art forms. I'm sure I'll enjoy this book.
8) The Beautiful Mystery by Louise Penny
9) The Eleventh Hour, a children's illustrated book by Graeme Base
10) The Shape of Snakes by Minette Walters
11) Project 17 by Laurie Faria Stolarz
12) The Dogs Who Came To Stay by George Pitcher
13) Summer of the Monkeys by Wilson Rawls
14) Carry Yourself Back To Me by Deborah Reed
15) Vermeer's Hat: The Seventeenth Century and the Dawn of the Global World by Timothy Brook
16) Story of a Girl by Sara Zarr
17) If I Should Die Before I Wake by Han Nolan
18) The Feast of Love by Charles Baxter This is a National Book Award Finalist
19) Ape House by Sara Gruen
20) The Ice House by Minette Walters
21) The Voyage of the Narwhal by Andrea Barrett
22) State of Wonder by Ann Patchett
23) Frozen Fire by Tim Bowler
24) Signs and Wonders by Philip Gulley
25) Home to Harmony by Philip Gulley
26) Dog House a Love Story by Carol Prisant
27) My Mother's Lovers by Christopher Hope
28) The Reserve by Russell Banks
29) Breakout by Paul Fleischman A National Book Award Finalist
30) Skylark by Patricia MacLachlin
31) More Perfect Than The Moon by Patricia MacLachlin
32) By The Great Horn Spoon by Sid Fleischman
33) A House of Tailors by Patricia Reilly Giff
34) Riding the Bus With My Sister by Rachel Simon
35) We'll Meet Again by Hilary Green
36) The Story Behind the Song by Jack Canfield
37) Pack of Two The Intricate bond Between People and Dogs by Caroline Knapp

76Whisper1
May 14, 2014, 11:40 pm

Hi Mary. Thanks for your visit and your kind words!

77Storeetllr
May 14, 2014, 11:44 pm

Nice haul, Linda! I've only read one, The Fifth Woman (and enjoyed it), but there are quite a few on the list I've heard of and/or been meaning to read.

78Whisper1
May 14, 2014, 11:50 pm

Yes, and now I wonder where I'll put them all. I think a cabinet in the garage might be the solution. I haven't read a lot this year, which is very frustrating. But, I still continue to accumulate.

I hope all is well with you Mary. Have you read any other books by Henning Mankell? And, have you watched the Wallander series. We aren't keen on the PBS version and like the episodes with Swedish sub titles. The characters are so well developed!

79AuntieClio
May 15, 2014, 12:04 am

Linda, so happy to hear about your progress. And your spree. Where would we be without our books?

80Whisper1
May 15, 2014, 12:07 am

Hi Stephanie
Many thanks for stopping by. I hope all is well with you.

81Copperskye
May 15, 2014, 12:21 am

Sending along my thoughts and prayers, Linda. You really do seem to be in excellent hands.

Quite a book haul - I loved Pack of Two.

82Whisper1
May 15, 2014, 12:25 am

Hi Joanne...
Like me, you are up late this evening. How are Coopers and Skye? You are such a lovely lady. I do hope to meet you one day.

83Copperskye
May 15, 2014, 12:35 am

Hi Linda, They are both good, thanks!

I would love to meet you, too. One day, I hope, we'll get the chance.

Have a good night! Sleep well.

84mckait
May 15, 2014, 7:05 am

>73 Whisper1: IF I were you I might be consuming that alcohol along with the books. Hopefully all of the medical issues will be resolved soon...( and anyone would be melting down)

>75 Whisper1: nice books! I too, enjoy American Folk Art...So now you have a few things to read during the summer :) I see Ann Patchett mentioned, but have never read any of her books... someday maybe :)
so many books, etc.

hugs

85scaifea
May 15, 2014, 7:05 am

There's nothing like a bit of book retail therapy, and wow, look at that haul!

Thinking of you, Linda.

86laytonwoman3rd
May 15, 2014, 7:29 am

I recently read The Reserve, but didn't get around to writing a review of it. It reminded me, a tiny bit, of The Great Gatsby, and I thought I'd explore that idea when I did my review, but it never happened!

87Carmenere
May 15, 2014, 7:37 am

Hi Linda! What a marvelous book haul!! I hope you had a shopping assistant to carry them away for you.
Wishing you a beautiful day!

88-Cee-
May 15, 2014, 8:10 am

Nice haul, Linda! I haven't read a one of them though I do have a few TBR. Have fun reading ;-)

For $30 you wouldn't get nearly that much alcohol - lol

89mckait
May 15, 2014, 8:12 am

>88 -Cee-: good point Cee

90jnwelch
May 15, 2014, 10:39 am

Nice book haul, Linda! All of that for less than a dollar a book - wow. My MBH and I are fans of folk art, too, so I'll be interested to hear your reaction to the one you picked up on that.

I liked your point about the books/alcohol spending, too - I'd be another one in big trouble if my alcohol spending came anywhere near my book spending!

Glad you're feeling better about the operation. It is miraculous what they can do these days to fix us up.

91jolerie
May 15, 2014, 3:34 pm

Book therapy always works wonders for me too, Linda! Glad to hear your spirits are a bit lifted. Will continue to think of you in my prayers. :)

93rosalita
May 16, 2014, 10:53 am

What a great book haul from the library sale! I normally hate shopping — the only exception is books, which I can browse through for hours.

99michigantrumpet
May 16, 2014, 1:26 pm

What a great shopper you are! All that for $30! Continuing warm thoughts for a successful outcome.

100Whisper1
Edited: May 16, 2014, 1:27 pm

BOOKS ACQUIRED IN 2014 ROUND SEVEN

91) House of Dolls by Francesca Lia Block

92) House of Tailors by Patricia Reilly Giff

93) If I Should Die Before I Wake by Han Nolan

94) In Search of Norman Rockwell's America by Kevin Rioli

95) An Invisible Thread by Laura Schroff

96) The Invisible World by Suzanne Weyn

97) Jane Goodall: 50 Years at Gombe

98) Jeremy: The Tale of an Honest Bunny by Jan Karon

99) Johanna by Claire Cooperstein

100) King Solomon's Mines by Henry Rider Haggard


TO BE CONTINUED

101foggidawn
May 16, 2014, 1:35 pm

Lots of great purchases this year!

102Smiler69
May 16, 2014, 1:46 pm

Look at all those books! Dreamy! ♥︎

104SandDune
May 16, 2014, 5:32 pm

Wow! I assume there are more to come as you've only got to M?

105AuntieClio
May 16, 2014, 6:39 pm

*bam*. Got me with Majestie!

106PaulCranswick
May 16, 2014, 7:32 pm

Linda - As you know I am an advocate of Book Retail Therapy as it is marvellously termed here and am always pleased to have the lists and stats produced for me in such magnificent detail. 37 books for $30 is a real humdinger.

Have a wonderful weekend my dear finding places for your new additions and don't worry unduly about upcoming procedures - you have the weight of the group pulling for you in their thoughts and prayers every day.

107mckait
May 16, 2014, 8:32 pm

Wow! What a fabulous list of books, and how beautifully you have displayed them! I think you and Paul may be very close in acquisitions this year if you keep it up!

108Whisper1
May 16, 2014, 8:35 pm

Hi Rhian..How love to have you visit.

Stephanie, as soon as I'm finished with it, I'll send it your way

Paul, What can I say..The world needs more of you!

109AuntieClio
May 16, 2014, 8:41 pm

>108 Whisper1: Oh Linda, that's so sweet! Thank you!

112jnwelch
May 17, 2014, 10:22 am

So many good ones, Linda! We loved Mirette on the High Wire.

113michigantrumpet
May 17, 2014, 10:34 am

Gosh! And I thought I did well at today's Library Book Sale!

114thornton37814
May 17, 2014, 11:20 am

You are doing quite well on your acquisitions. Our library is having one of its book sales today. I haven't gone because I don't need any more books. I'm trying to get what I have under control and a lot out the door first!

115Whisper1
May 17, 2014, 3:22 pm

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll try to read this one, and Majestie before reading others.

Hi Marianne. What did you acquire today?

Lori...I'm proud of you. You have more will power than I do.

116thornton37814
May 17, 2014, 7:35 pm

I did get a small book (only 30 pages) that I ordered from the South Carolina Department of Archives and History in the mail today. It won't take up much space, but it will be quite useful to me.

119AuntieClio
May 18, 2014, 3:35 pm

>117 Whisper1: aaaand Sex with Kings just went on the wishlist, along with its companion Sex with Queens.

120michigantrumpet
May 18, 2014, 5:35 pm

Posted of the haul(!) over on my thread.

Got quite carried away in all the excitement!

121TinaV95
May 18, 2014, 10:07 pm

Book retail therapy is good for all that ails you, Linda!! You deserve it with all you've been through, my dear sweet friend!!!

Very careful ((((hugs)))) to you!

122Whisper1
May 18, 2014, 10:25 pm

>119 AuntieClio: Hi Stephanie. I'm always amazed at the lives of Kings and Queens!

>120 michigantrumpet: Hi Marianne, What a great book haul!

>121 TinaV95: Dear Tina, thanks for your support and kind words. And, by the way, I love the stationery shown on your thread!

124Whisper1
May 18, 2014, 10:56 pm

Today was a bright, sunny day. This weekend grand daughter Kayla, daughter Breanna, and five year old Mason (nephew of Breanna), and a friend of Kayla's stayed over night last night. Gathering up the little neighborhood girls, we headed to the local park.

A good time was had by all!



In the evening, we made cookies, lots and lots of cookies.



It was a nice time. Life is good when surrounded by children and laughter!

125brenpike
May 19, 2014, 12:32 am

What fun!

126ronincats
May 19, 2014, 12:56 am

{{{{Linda}}}}

127drneutron
May 19, 2014, 9:41 am

What a great batch of kids!

128jnwelch
May 19, 2014, 11:49 am

That's one happy crew of cookie elves, Linda!

129mckait
May 19, 2014, 11:57 am

It looks like a good time was had by all :) Beautiful photos!

130countrylife
May 19, 2014, 1:11 pm

{..chortle..} Will's personality is shining through! And he's just as I pictured him! Looks like everyone had fun! Because cookie therapy is good, too.

131michigantrumpet
May 19, 2014, 2:18 pm

What a charming crew! I loved those days baking next to my grandmother! Thanks for sharing the photos.

132Whisper1
May 19, 2014, 11:04 pm

Thanks to all for your visit. I think I missed my calling in life. The best thing my former husband and I did was to adopt our lovely (now 31 year old) daughter. She brought/brings such joy to us, and now that she is a mother, the joy is compounded.

Alas, I'm happiest when a) I'm with children b) reading a book c) spending time with family. In the next life I'll adopt a bunch of children, read books to them and have a large family. For now, all is wonderful with the life I have!

I have vacation days to use or lose. It is difficult to fit them in before the end of June. I'm not complaining, after all, I was paid for three months from November - February when recovering from the third fusion.

I'm going to take Wednesday and Thursday this week and go away with daughter Breanna, while Will stays home and enjoys Lilly. Perhaps he will train her to get all the neighbors papers and deliver them to their doorstep. Who knows what those two are up to when I go away.

An end of the day appointment with my wonderful primary care doctor today afforded time to discuss concerns and imperatives of complicated surgery at Thomas Jefferson. Paperwork in place for cat scan, MRI and blood work, then Thursday meeting with cardiologist who will put me through a series of strenuous tests to ensure my heart is strong enough for a long surgery and recovery.

My experience is that there is always a lot of stress building up to the actual surgery -- date not scheduled as yet, until all tests are taken and results are sent, and Thomas Jefferson folk do battle with my insurance company for out of network coverage.

I am so weary that I came home and fell asleep at 7:00...geesh, I feel like an old, old lady.

133Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:22 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #36

The Winter People by Jennifer McMahon

I'm not sure what to say about this book. My feelings/thoughts are mixed. It seemed to take longer than usual to finish because there were inordinately protracted periods of pages that seemed disjointed. Never one who cares for chapters that switch from one time period to another and from one person to another, this is the main negative frustration about the book. I simply lost interest because it seemed to take too much energy to remember time, place and characters.

The positive is that the ending was good in the way in which it tied the story together. Many ghost stories seem to be unnecessary frustrating cliff hangers, and this was not one of those.

In a small New England town, rumors are rampant regarding a 100 year old ghost who reportedly haunts the town. Centered around a farm house, previously lived in by the ghost lady, in current time, a mother of two is missing. Afraid to report her absence to the police, the older girl mothers the younger and tries to discover what occurred.

This is a story of the extreme measures loved ones will do to have a short period of time with their resurrected beloved. The price paid is dangerously steep!

There is a host of characters, some thrown in for diversion and some that are necessary to the plot. It takes time to figure out who is and isn't important in the story line.

I'm not sure I can recommend this book. I know others liked it a lot. I'll remain in the minority.

134Whisper1
May 19, 2014, 11:41 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #54
Sleeping Ugly by Jane Yolen with illustrations by Diane Stanley


This is a quick, lively banter-filled tale of the beautiful princess Miserella who remains beautiful despite the ugliness inside, a magical fairy, and a not-too beautiful Plain Jane who has a loving nature, but a very plain countenance.

When Miseralla's terrible ugly actions upset the fairy, mistakenly the three are all thrown into a deep, deep sleep. Along comes a handsome prince who must choose to kiss the right lady.

The illustrations are lovely. I enjoyed the humorous rendition of this fairy tale.

135tymfos
May 19, 2014, 11:50 pm

Hi, Linda! I'm glad you're feeling better about the surgery.

What a marvelous list of acquired books!

136Whisper1
May 20, 2014, 9:23 am

Hi Terri

Good Morning! Thanks for your message.

137Whisper1
Edited: May 20, 2014, 9:30 am

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #55
The Paperboy by Dav Pikey


This 1997 Caldecott honor book is delightful. The simple story of a boy and his beloved dog traveling through the neighborhood in the early morning hours to deliver papers throughout the sleepy town is a joy to behold.


138michigantrumpet
May 20, 2014, 12:41 pm

Loving all the illustrations from The Paperboy. I think I'll give The Winter People a pass.

Can well imagine you were exhausted after all the doctor's appointments. Stressful, but glad to see a plan is in place for you. In the meantime, you have oodles of little people who seem to enjoy your company. :-P

139rosalita
May 21, 2014, 11:59 am

Linda, thank you for your review of The Winter People. I've been seeing it mentioned here and there but yours is the first review that I felt helped me understand what it's about. I'm not sure if I'll read it or not, but at least I will go into it with some foreknowledge.

I also love the pics of you and all the little ones! It looks like a marvelous time was had by all, including Lilly!

140mckait
May 21, 2014, 6:30 pm

I read The Winter People this year too :) I liked it!

I hope tomorrow is easier than you expect it to be :)

141TinaV95
May 22, 2014, 10:29 pm

Love the pictures of you with the girls at the park and then Will with them in the kitchen making cookies with them! Such a lovely day! Warms my heart to see you two smiling after all you've been going through!

142Matke
May 23, 2014, 5:13 pm

Stopping by to say I'm thinking of you and hoping for a quick resolution to the insurance hassle, a successful surgery, and an uneventful recovery.
xo

143Whisper1
May 24, 2014, 12:18 am

>138 michigantrumpet: Hi Marianne Thanks for stopping by! Many 75 challenge group members liked The Winter People. For some reason, it just didn't resonate with me. AS with all books, the frame of mind you are in when you read the story, has a lot to do with your perception.
>139 rosalita: Hi Julia, Despite the physical and emotional pain, I'm finding life precious. And, while I've had a few melt downs, and bumps in the road, for now, I've been able to keep one foot in front of the other.
>140 mckait: HI Kath. I read your excellent review. I'm glad you liked The Winter People. It is a book that haunts because I'm still thinking about it.
>141 TinaV95: Thinking of you and sending hugs! Newspaper reported yesterday that PA is now one of the states that accepts same sex marriage! Yeah!!!!
>142 Matke: Hi Gail. I'm so glad to see you here! Your emotional support means a lot.

144Whisper1
Edited: Aug 16, 2014, 11:12 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #37
When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit by Judith Kerr

Told from the perspective of nine year old Anna, in 1933, her secure life becomes shattered as she and her family flee Berlin. Her father, a well-known writer, finds it impossible to support his family as increasingly his articles are not allowed to be printed.

Insightful, fearful, he knows he must take his family and leave all behind before it is too late. Moving from Germany to Switzerland, then France and finally England, Anna finds it difficult to adjust. Middle class and sheltered, she has no reference for the difficult life they face as the family learns different customs and languages.

While the book is well written, I felt it lacked depth. As others were dying in concentration camps, starving and losing all contact with loved ones, Anna's family is fortunate to be able to leave.

In comparison to other nine year old children during this historical time frame, Anna is very naive regarding just how frightening it is to exist under Hitler's reign of terror.

146Whisper1
May 24, 2014, 9:51 pm

225) My Rotten Redheaded Older Brother by Patricia Polacco

226) The Odds by Stewart O'Nan

227) The Confessions of Katherine Howard by Suzannah Dunn

228) The Unseen by Katherine Webb

229) After Camelot by J. Randy Taraborrelli

147Whisper1
Edited: May 24, 2014, 10:12 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #56
No, David by David Shannon

Delightful illustrations reinforce the story of David who seems to always be in trouble. NO, is the word heard over and over again. Interestingly, as a child the author kept a small book wherein he illustrated and wrote about the many things he did that elicited a firm NO! As an adult, he decided to revise the book and, it became a well-deserved Caldecott Honor book!

148mckait
May 25, 2014, 8:59 am

I looks like you will be able to open your own library when the year is over :)

I hope that you have a great weekend!

149msf59
May 25, 2014, 9:13 am

Hi Linda! Love the photo with the grandkids. Isn't Breanna a gorgeous name? Do they call her Bree too?

Hope you are having a lovely weekend, my friend.

150London_StJ
May 25, 2014, 10:37 am

I have been entirely absent this year, and I'm sorry for it. You are still in my thoughts, and I hope all is well.

151jolerie
May 25, 2014, 12:36 pm

Just wanted to swing by and say Hi and give some *hugs* Linda. Hope you are doing well and all these books will give you lots of comfort. Hard decisions to make, but you are one tough and strong gal!

152cyderry
May 25, 2014, 12:48 pm

When I read your description of The Paperboy I laughed because of your comment about Will and Lilly and what they may do when you're gone.

Hugs my friend!

153richardderus
May 25, 2014, 1:44 pm

xoxo again, Linda!

154DeltaQueen50
May 25, 2014, 3:51 pm

Hi Linda, I hope you are having a lovely weekend. So many gorgeous book covers on your 2014 acquisitions, I look forward to someday reading your thoughts on all these reads.

155connie53
May 25, 2014, 4:56 pm

Love the pictures of all the kids in the park and baking cookies!

156drneutron
May 26, 2014, 8:42 am

Hmmm, you got me with The Palace of Curiosities!

157michigantrumpet
May 26, 2014, 3:19 pm

Wishing you a happy Memorial Day and lots of lovely reading. A truly remarkable book haul.

158tututhefirst
May 26, 2014, 8:25 pm

>133 Whisper1: Linda your review of The Winter People is very helpful. I've had this one at the top of the queue both in print and audio several times, and then shied away. It just doesn't sound like it will work for me. I don't mind chapters that go back and forth, but I think I'm at a point in my life where I'm up to my proverbial eyeballs in ghosts and hauntings and other thingies that go bump, so I thank you for enlightening me enough to say "pass" for quite a while.

159Donna828
May 27, 2014, 11:50 am

Linda, if your listings of acquired books makes me happy, you must be ecstatic with all the pretties!

>124 Whisper1:: Speaking of pretties, I love the pictures of Kayla and friends. Those cookies look yummy. Haley loves to help me in the kitchen when she comes over, especially if cookies are involved!

Wow…even more books. I'm such a slacker. I think I've purchased under 50 books this year. For every book that comes into the house, at least one must leave; therefore, I have to be conservative in my book buying. Works for me!

160porch_reader
May 27, 2014, 5:40 pm

Hi Linda! My boys loved No David! when they were little, but I didn't know that the book was started by David Shannon when he was young. How interesting! I hope you enjoyed the holiday weekend!

161scaifea
May 28, 2014, 7:59 am

Just stopping by to say Hi, Linda! Hope you're feeling well!

162Whisper1
May 28, 2014, 10:30 am

Hello to all!

I apologize for being out of touch. I'm very frustrated long about now. Work is consuming, pain is increasingly unmanageable, and I haven't been able to concentrate on reading.

Now for the positive--I am blessed in many ways. I have a loving partner, a wonderful family, a strong, steady group of friends, food on the table, roof over my head, and a job that, while hectic, I enjoy it and am darn lucky to have found a position where I've been for 31 years and still enjoy what I do.

And, this morning, brought laughter to our family as we were sitting in the living room, Lilly who loves it when we are all together, wanted to show off, ran to the door and barked, then ran hurriedly down the driveway, paper in mouth dragging it all the way up the hill and then bringing it inside, dropped it at my feet, wagged her tail, then put it in mouth and went round the room repeating the task of showing off -- paper in mouth, tail wagging, dropping paper, then putting paper in mouth until she got to the next family member. What a wonderful way to start a day!

Hugs to all!

163Whisper1
Edited: Aug 16, 2014, 11:13 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #38


At Her Majesty's Request: An African Princess in Victorian England by Walter Dean Myers

This is a very interesting tale based on the true story of an English captain who rescued an African princess from sure death via sacrifice by a brutal African King of Dahome. Attacking and killing members of villages, the King of Dahome, kept some members, bringing them back to Dahome to hold in pens until his ritual of sacrifice was held.

When Captain Frederick Forbes is meeting with the King, he is told that a sacrificial ceremony is about to occur. Watching in horror, he notes a small five year old girl about to be killed. Asking the King to give the girl to him as a present for Queen Victoria, he then rescues the girl, bringing her back to England, naming her Sarah Forbes Bonetta.

The Queen is smitten with Sarah and from then on provides funding for her upkeep. Frequent visits to the palace set Sarah apart from others and she is held in great esteem.

Befriended by Queen Victoria's children, Sarah forms a bond that lasts a lifetime. Sharp, sensitive and very intelligent, Sarah adapts to her life and, while she dies at a young time in her life, she marries, has two children and is forever grateful to her rescuer.

Here is a link with more in depth information regarding Sarah Forbes Bonetta:

http://kwekudee-tripdownmemorylane.blogspot.com/2012/09/sarah-forbes-bonetta-dav...

164cal8769
May 28, 2014, 12:20 pm

That sounds very good!

165maggie1944
May 28, 2014, 4:42 pm

Ha! I fell completely off the Band Wagon which follows your threads around all these beautiful books, but today I flew through and am here to drop off a message so you'll be at the top of my list of threads to check. I hope I'll find time to go back and look at some of the lovely books you've reviewed but perhaps I'll only be around to see those you will be reviewing....

166richardderus
May 28, 2014, 4:46 pm

xoxo Linda, what a wonderful way for Lilly to start y'all's day!

167connie53
May 29, 2014, 1:32 pm

Love the story about Lilly. I can imagine the whole family laughing about that.

168AuntieClio
May 29, 2014, 2:50 pm

Thinking of you. And love that Lily!

169mckait
May 29, 2014, 7:21 pm

LOL at the Lilly story :) I wish you could wake up pain free....

170souloftherose
May 30, 2014, 2:01 pm

I got very behind Linda but I'm stopping by to say hello and that I am thinking of you especially as you prepare for another surgery. Lovely to see the pictures of you and the children in the park :-)

171tymfos
May 30, 2014, 8:37 pm

What a delightful story about Lily!

So sorry to hear of your increasing pain. Hugs to you, Linda!

172Matke
May 30, 2014, 8:50 pm

Great story about Lily, Linda.

Hoping for healing for you soon.

xo

173Donna828
May 31, 2014, 11:34 am

What a fun Lily story, Linda! She seems to be a real people pleaser. I think a wonderful dog like Lily is good medicine! I hope your weekend is relaxing and relatively pain free.

174kidzdoc
May 31, 2014, 3:00 pm

Great review of At Her Majesty's Request, Linda. I'll add it to my wish list.

175gennyt
Jun 2, 2014, 4:32 am

I loved your illustrated list of all the books acquired this year, Linda - though I dared not look too closely in case I got ideas, I did recognise some old friends among them.

Lovely story about Lilly too!

176Berly
Jun 2, 2014, 10:25 pm

Hi Linda--Hoping your surgery happens sooner than later. Its only fair--you need more time to read all the books you brought into your life this year! Best wishes and lots of hugs.

177michigantrumpet
Jun 3, 2014, 3:17 pm

Checking in -- great review at >163 Whisper1:. And great story about Lily!

178laytonwoman3rd
Jun 3, 2014, 3:37 pm

Too quiet in here... sending gentle hugs and good vibes. Blessings on Lilly...don't Shelties just love to show off and be praised for it!

179Whisper1
Jun 4, 2014, 3:34 pm

Hello Everyone. We were able to find someone to watch the house and Lilly while we escape to Ocean City, NJ for three days. Work has been so very stressful that either long term disability or retirement are looking real good right about now.

I appreciate the kind comments and outreach more than words can express!

180Whisper1
Jun 4, 2014, 3:40 pm

Two more books acquired recently, they were acquired for .25 each, they are:

BOOK #230The ZooKeeper's Wife by Diane Ackmerman

BOOK #231
Talk to the Hand The Utter Bloody rudeness of the World Today, or Six Good Reasons to Stay Home and Bolt the Door by Lynne Truss


181Berly
Jun 4, 2014, 3:52 pm

Excellent bargain hunting! Glad you get to escape work for a little. Sorry it is so stressful.

182maggie1944
Jun 4, 2014, 9:05 pm

oh, that "talk to the hand" book would be good for me right now.... I'm into staying home, and bolting the door today. (hint: I am waiting for the HOA Board meeting to begin in about 25 minutes).

183scaifea
Jun 5, 2014, 7:25 am

Oh, I think you'll really enjoy The Zookeeper's Wife - I did!

So when are you going to NJ? Or are you there now? Or already gone and back again?

184brenpike
Jun 5, 2014, 11:27 am

Ditto about The Zookeepers Wife! One of my all-time favorites . . .

185mckait
Jun 5, 2014, 9:01 pm

oh no... now I might have to read Zookeepers wife...

drat

186michigantrumpet
Jun 7, 2014, 8:18 am

Enjoy Ocean City. Hope you've had a stress-free relaxing few days. Thinking of you. Just saw your PM. Popping over right now.

187Donna828
Jun 7, 2014, 3:04 pm

I own The Zookeeper's Wife but there never seems to be the best time to read it. I should just do it one of these days for the heck of it. I hope your getaway rejuvenated you and Will. Sometimes a change of scenery is the best medicine. Thinking of you and wishing you well, Linda. Sorry that work has been so stressful. Somehow I thought summers at a university were fairly laid back. Apparently not.

188Smiler69
Jun 8, 2014, 11:59 am

Hi Linda, dropping by to catch up on you. Sorry the pain is acting up and work is stressful. But as always, you always manage to look on the bright side of life and focus on the positive, which is hugely inspirational.

Wishing you all the best. xx

189Whisper1
Edited: Jun 9, 2014, 10:55 pm

Hello Everyone! Thanks for stopping by.

It was great to get away. Thursday night rides on the boardwalk two tickets each. And, then a 9:00 p.m. fireworks display:



I was able to read, sit in the sun, and have family time. It was too short, but it was well worth the packing and unpacking.

190ronincats
Jun 9, 2014, 10:58 pm

Glad you had such a lovely break. {{{Linda}}}

191Whisper1
Edited: Aug 16, 2014, 11:16 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #39


After Camelot by J. Randy Taraborreli

If ever an adage was true, it does indeed ring of the Kennedys. Money cannot buy happiness. Money cannot beat the inevitability of death, and money cannot buy respect.

This is 624 well written pages of the life stories of the American royalty. While at times scathing, mainly it was a look at the joys and the tragedies.

I was eleven when JFK was murdered. Fast forward to grade ten, and the television came to life as programs were interrupted with the tragic news that Robert Kennedy was gunned down and murdered. Tears, including mine, were shed, as well they should have been.

Then, years later, came the blatant disregard for life by the son who held promise to carry the torch. The news reported that Mary Jo Kopechne was found dead in a car-- in fact, she died the night before as Teddy drove the car off a ramp, escaping, never bothering to find help. Finding an air pocket at the top of the car, she died slowly. There was time to save her. Trying to get friends to take the blame, it wasn't until the next morning when he decided he had to face up to his liability.

While each man held bright promise, each man also carried the tradition of their father in using women as their playing ground while wives stayed at home on the compound, watching the kids and looking pretty.

While Ethel's three eldest boys were out of control with drugs, fast driving and throwing around the Kennedy name, Jackie carefully guarded her children's exposure to the rough ones. When Ethel's oldest son Joe drove a jeep round and round and round, spinning the wheels as it turned upside down, paralyzing David's girlfriend, she was promptly dumped by David and paid to go away.

When Papa Joe Kennedy produced a beautiful, but mentally challenged daughter, without the consult of his wife, he decided that the best path to choose was a lobotomy.

Ethel held fast to Bobby's legacy. Joan sobered up and left Teddy. Jackie escaped with Ari Onassis and provided stability for her two children in the hope of getting them out of harms way.

Make no mistake about it -- there were scandals and out of control behaviors. But, there were shining promises. There were three men who cared deeply about the future of America. These men brought hope and a new direction. The Peace Corps, The Special Olympics, and Ted's dedicated activism and fight for health care reform were but a few of the major accomplishments of these troubled souls.

The light did shine brightly on the Kennedys. They inherited wealth, were raised with strong Catholic values by a staunch mother, and they had a supreme mandate to try to make the country better than it was.

192maggie1944
Jun 9, 2014, 11:48 pm

Linda, I was a Sophomore at the University when JFK was shot; and newly returned from the Peace Corps staying with friends in Ithaca NY when Bobby was shot. I was a staunch Democrat when the tragedy of Teddy's making occurred. What a family.

You did an excellent job of reviewing the book which, according to your review, seems to have presented a balanced picture of the good stuff and the not so good stuff. It was a rough time to be an American interested in politics and civic life. Thank you for a good review.

193Whisper1
Edited: Jun 10, 2014, 12:01 am

Thanks Karen I fear I focused too much on the negative. I confess that I remain very bothered by the hubris of the Kennedys. But, I also know that a great deal of good was accomplished. I believe the Robert would have been a very good president. Alas, we will never know.

I didn't know you were in the Peace Corps. I'd love to learn more of this experience.

194Whisper1
Edited: Jun 12, 2014, 12:22 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #40


The Aviator's Wife by Melanie Benjamin

This is the #1 book of the year for me. I couldn't put it down! Historical fiction has always been my choice of reading. This book brought me back to this genre.

Narrated from Anne Morrow Lindbergh's point of view, we learn her strength, her weakness (staying with a cad for so many years while he left his family alone, with no contact information for long, long periods of time), and the reader learns of the sharp, determined, egocentric, controlling, self centered hero, Charles Lindbergh.

While he roamed the world, admonishing her grief when their first born was kidnapped and killed, Anne stayed behind as five more children were born and raised by her.

She was a strong, intelligent woman who was the first female to obtain a pilot's license. Taught by Charles in a demanding fashion, she soon learned to navigate both with instruments, and by Polaris, the bright constant star.

Despite her growing anger and longing to claim her individuality, Charles remained her constant star throughout the many years of their marriage.

The mark of great historical fiction challenges the reader to learn more, to separate the facts from the fiction. Melanie Benjamin does an amazing job of this!

While the author writes of Anne's supreme anger, dismay of betrayal when, before Charles' death, she discovered there were three German mistresses with whom he sired a total of seven children, in fact, I researched to learn that it was their children, who when contacted by their half siblings, discovered their father's other lives, long after Anne's death.

Mainly, I was in awe of the author's ability to paint Anne's feelings of love and hate of the hero Charles Lindbergh. And, haven't we all felt that at times in our lives, ie the longing to be loved, the disappointment in ourselves when we know we have loved too much to receive so very little in return?



195Berly
Jun 11, 2014, 11:31 am

Wow Linda! I've been hit by your book bullet! A five-star from you says it all, although the review helped too. I had no clue he was such a cad.

196Whisper1
Jun 11, 2014, 12:48 pm

Kim, A cad and then some. Let's just say he would not have been someone I would have wanted for a husband.

How are you feeling today?

197Oberon
Jun 11, 2014, 12:50 pm

>194 Whisper1: Nice review. I will need to check it out. I really liked Anne Lindbergh's book Gift from the Sea which I read in college. She was a strong writer.

198maggie1944
Jun 11, 2014, 2:41 pm

I also knew that Lindbergh sympathized with Hitler before World War II as did many in England, France, and the United States.

I remember when I was in college Ann Morrow Lindbergh's book was held as inspirational by the folks in the church where I attended. My vague recollection was that her public face was seen as very "long suffering" and "stiff upper lip". I didn't much like it then, and even less now. Feminism had not yet cracked the hold that post war attitudes held over women.

I wish I had more space in my Wish List, and my To Be Read Soon piles. I think I'll stick this one in my wish list as it truly sounds like just the kind of book I like.

199Berly
Jun 11, 2014, 3:49 pm

>196 Whisper1: Thanks for asking Linda. Well, the good news is my knee is no longer cantaloupe sized. More grapefruitish. Still in cumbersome splint from thigh to ankle with only 20 degrees bend, BUT!!! I graduated to hobbling around on one crutch yesterday! That is awesome because now I have a free hand to carry stuff. Happiness.

200Whisper1
Jun 11, 2014, 7:15 pm

>197 Oberon: Hi Erik, Thanks for stopping by. When reading The Aviator's Wife, I learned that Ann won two major/prestigious writing awards from her Alma Mater, Smith College. In addition, she helped to write Lindberg's Pulitzer prize winning book The Spirit of St. Louis. He gave her no credit, instead he praised the Wright Brothers as his inspiration.

The beauty of The Aviator's Wife is that now I'm on a mission to read more.

I hope all is well with you.

201Whisper1
Jun 11, 2014, 7:19 pm

>198 maggie1944: Hello Again Karen. It is always a pleasure to read posts from you. One of the clear themes of The Aviator's Wife was Ann's struggle to be independent. Melanie Benjamin painted her as a complex woman ruled by the time in society who longed to be free to be her own person. How right you are that pre feminism was VERY constricting time. Long suffering, stiff upper lip, seem to describe the way in which she was portrayed, yet there was a huge element of a woman who was angry because of the stiff upper lip, who was angry at his controlling nature, and saddened by the fact that she was very much in love with this flawed man.

202Whisper1
Jun 11, 2014, 7:20 pm

>199 Berly: Kim, what you are going through sounds horrendously painful. I know I'd be very frustrated by the lack of mobility.

203mckait
Jun 11, 2014, 7:39 pm

Aviators wife looks good...
I was, and remain a great fan of Teddy Kennedy. That family did far more good than harm, imo, and Teddy charmed me when he arrived for his appointments every three months. He was filled with ood humor, kindness and he treated everyone as if they were special.

204Whisper1
Jun 11, 2014, 10:35 pm

Kath, I agree with you. The family was a tremendous inspiration for America at a time when it was most needed.

The Kennedys were, as we all are, flawed human beings who are trying make a difference.

205magicians_nephew
Jun 12, 2014, 10:24 am

>194 Whisper1:: Linda this is fiction? a roman a clef? Does it actually claim to be the story of Ann and Charles Lindbergh?

206Whisper1
Jun 12, 2014, 12:23 pm

Hi Jim! So nice to see you here. It is fiction, and as most historical fiction novels, there is some embellishment, but overall the story rings true based on other information obtained.

How are you?

207magicians_nephew
Jun 12, 2014, 9:35 pm

all good here - enjoying the books you post about - drool over the covers you show us

208ronincats
Jun 12, 2014, 9:40 pm

{{{{Linda}}}}

209maggie1944
Jun 13, 2014, 12:31 pm

>208 ronincats:, me too! Have a great and restful weekend.

210Whisper1
Jun 13, 2014, 12:48 pm

>207 magicians_nephew: Hello again Jim. I'm glad you are well!

>208 ronincats: Hi Roni. How was your show last week?

>209 maggie1944: Karen, As always, good to see you.

211tututhefirst
Jun 13, 2014, 9:51 pm

>194 Whisper1: I blew right by this one somehow. You have now planted another BB on my list.

212countrylife
Jun 17, 2014, 9:02 am

Wow! A big thumbs-up for your review of The Aviator's Wife. That one's been on my wishlist for ages, but you've just rearranged my TBR stack for me!
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