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1Whisper1
Edited: Apr 6, 2014, 1:13 pm



2Whisper1
Edited: Mar 20, 2014, 7:29 am

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #44

My energy is low this week, when this occurs, I read lovely illustrated books.

Chester's Way by Kevin Henkes

Two obsession compulsive mouse friend Chester and Wilson do everything together. During Halloween they dress with outfits that match. They are two peas in a pod, or ham and eggs, and salt and pepper.

They tie their shoes with long strings to double tie. They play croquet, cut sandwiches diagonally and always get out of bed on the same side.

No one could fit in with them and be as set in their ways...until, along came Lilly who is also ocd. She has a mind of her own. Never leaving the house without one of her creative disguises, she also talks backward to herself and carries a loaded quirt gun in case she needs it.

When Lilly rescues Chester and Wilson, she is accepted and the two now become a trio.

This is cute. I laughed at the crazy outfits of Lilly. And while certainly not complicated, it was able all I could read today. It was good simply to look at illustrations and enjoy the tale.

3Smiler69
Edited: Mar 19, 2014, 10:14 pm

Hi Linda! Happy New Thread!

I'm only seeing two of the images plus the cover for Chester's Way a shame, since it seems lovely.

p.s. I love that Waterhouse by the way.

4Whisper1
Mar 19, 2014, 10:26 pm

Hi Ilana

Thanks for stopping by. I hope today was a good one for you.

5LizzieD
Mar 19, 2014, 10:26 pm

I can't believe I'm here at the beginning of a new thread! I wish that some ease may come with it.
Take care of your dear self.

6TinaV95
Mar 19, 2014, 10:27 pm

Happy new thread, my friend!

Sorry I've been away for a while with my own life stuff, but I just caught up on your last thread and saw the news about your needing another surgery. ((((Linda))))

I'm so very sorry. I know this is NOT what you wanted and what you were dreading hearing. I am very glad that your doctor is intelligent and caring enough to send you to the BEST of the BEST though. You're in my heart and prayers.

7Whisper1
Edited: Mar 19, 2014, 10:43 pm

>5 LizzieD: Hi Peggy. I always smile when I see a post from you.
>6 TinaV95: Hi Tina. While I'm upset that another surgery is needed. I know I'm in good hands. Will is so kind and patient. He did not sign up for five surgeries in four years. He is a wonderful presence when I'm recovering.

There is a bit of a set back. When I arranged for an appointment with Dr. Vaccaro at the Rothman Institute in Philadelphia Jefferson hospital, I was told that they do not carry my insurance.

My surgeon had a lengthy conversation with Dr. Vaccaro and he agreed to see me and to do the operation, and I thought it was smooth sailing, until the main office of Jefferson told me they don't cover Keystone Central.

My surgeon insists he is the only one he would trust to do this complicated operation.

I contacted the Lehigh human resources office and explained my situation. They noted that there are a few instances when out of network providers (Blue Cross?) will pick up the tab if I can prove no one in this area is capable.

I'm asking for prayers. While I don't want another surgery, I do need to have it.

It was not a good day for me. It started with a blood test that took 45 minutes because I have spidery veins that roll. It took three people to get two tubes of blood.

The sun will come out tomorrow...right?

8Smiler69
Mar 19, 2014, 11:10 pm

Oh Linda, I'm so sorry to read about your troubles. I do wish for the best possible outcome with this insurance situation. And yes, tomorrow is another day. Gentle {{{hugs}}}

9foggidawn
Mar 19, 2014, 11:36 pm

As Lilly's teacher Mr. Slinger says in another book (Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse), "Today was a difficult day. Tomorrow will be better."

10AuntieClio
Mar 20, 2014, 12:15 am

Linda, I'm hoping for this to go well with you. I think it's a sin to withhold health care from people, especially those who are in need of specialized care.

I am thankful every day for good caring doctors and nursing staff who watch over their patients.

11Whisper1
Mar 20, 2014, 7:29 am

>Thanks so much dear friend!
>Good Morning Foggidawn! I have a lot of books to return to the library. I will check out Lilly's Plastic Purse. What an appropriate quote.
>Hi Stephanie. I trust that it will be resolved. I'll need the help of my surgeon to explain this is the only one who can do the surgery. Fingers crossed, and prayers of course.

12-Cee-
Mar 20, 2014, 7:50 am

Hoping and praying for the best for you, Linda. Sometimes it seems nothing is ever easy. It sounds like your doctor will fight for you and help you convince the insurance company.
Hope today brings you a bit more energy and hope.

Keep reading... stay strong. Spring is here - whether it wants to act like it or not ;-)
hugs

13Whisper1
Edited: Mar 20, 2014, 7:56 am

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #45


The Red Bird by Astrid Lindgren with illustrations of Marit Tornqvist

Orphaned, afraid and hungry, Anna and Matthew found a farmer who would house and feed them in return for their labor. Sadly, there was an excess of labor, and minimum food in return.

Sadly, each day Anna thinks of death and worries if she will make it through yet one more season of the year. It is bitter cold in the winter, but they long for this season because they can go to school for a few short weeks and escape the farmer.

Bullied in school because of their poverty, they sit together in a corner away from others. Dissappointed because they thought school would provide respite, Anna becomes more melancholy.

When walking through large hedges of snow, they spot a bright red bird. Providing color to a bleak world, the bird leads them to a door in the forest. The door is ajar, and when walking through it they are provided with a rich image of many children playing in the sunshine. Instead of bleakness, they are greeted with children who play with them, and a bright world of color and magically their rags turn to lovely red that matches the outfits of all the happy children.

The world is overseen by a lovely, kind woman called mother who provides food in abundance. Contrasted with the measly crusts of bread they had, now there is food aplenty.

Told that the door must stay open because once it is closed it can never be opened again, after many visits to the magical world, in contrast to the poverty and cruelty of their world with the farmer, they long to never return to greyness.

Looking at one another, both Matthew and Anna close the door so that they can never return to the grey and live happily ever after in the sun.



14cyderry
Mar 20, 2014, 1:30 pm

The start of spring means the beginning of new hopes and dreams. How can we not believe that with spring will come good health and beautiful peaceful days.

Crossing everything I can and praying like crazy that the insurance company gets off their ***** and clears this special doctor to heal your pain.


15connie53
Mar 20, 2014, 1:59 pm

Wow, Linda, that is really a set back! I hope it can be sorted out! My thoughts are with you.

BTW. I just went *sigh* when I saw this beautiful picture on top! Really very special.

16DeltaQueen50
Mar 20, 2014, 2:24 pm

Keeping my fingers crossed for you, Linda. Hope this set-back is only temporary and that things will soon be progressing smoothly.

17PaulCranswick
Mar 20, 2014, 6:50 pm

>7 Whisper1: Bet your bottom dollar, its tomorrow.

The trials of life seem to have set you aside for an exacting examination, dear lady. The good guys always win in Hollywood so I hope we can borrow some of their magic and foist it upon recalcitrant insurers. xx

Congratulations on your new thread, btw.

18thornton37814
Mar 20, 2014, 9:45 pm

The whole in and out of network situation seems to grow worse all the time. I hope the insurance company approves it.

19thornton37814
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20Whisper1
Edited: Apr 6, 2014, 1:56 pm

>14 cyderry: Hi Cheli. I'm so sorry that you have to have another surgery. I hope everything works out so that you can continue with your California plans.
>15 connie53: Connie, I'm glad you enjoyed the opening image. J.W. Waterhouse is my favorite Pre-Raphaelite artist. Many prints are on my living room wall. He gives shining beauty to women.

>16 DeltaQueen50: Thanks Judy! The only way I can think around this, if I cannot have out of network options, is to change insurance companies to the one that Thomas Jefferson accepts. The draw back to this is that we have open enrollment once a year, and that won't occur until next January. I hate to think of another year of pain. It's been four and 1/2 years without a single day that is pain free.

>17 PaulCranswick: Hello Dear Paul. As always, it is nice to see a post from you.
>18 thornton37814: Lori, I'm learning the navigational process of insurances. Dealing with the insurance company that handles the university short term disability coverage is a nightmare.

21Whisper1
Mar 20, 2014, 10:48 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #46

Joseph Had a Little Overcoat by Simms Taback

This 2000 Caldecott medal winner was a sheer joy to read.

Joseph's coat is old and worn, so he made a jacket out of the parts that were not patched together. When the jacket was old and worn, it became a vest. As each item becomes old and worm, Joseph makes good use of it. Until, at the very end, all that was left to make was a button. And, sadly, the button was lost and never found.

But, making something out of nothing, Joseph wrote a book about his wonderful overcoat.

22wilkiec
Mar 22, 2014, 5:53 am

*Happy weekend wave*

23mckait
Mar 22, 2014, 8:02 am

What a beautiful thread, as always. I am always so sad to hear that you aren't feeling well, and still have pain. It has been so long and you bear up so well, I just can't imagine! Take care of you and feel hugged.

24thornton37814
Mar 22, 2014, 9:00 pm

Love the illustrations on the book about Joseph!

25Whisper1
Mar 22, 2014, 10:54 pm

Hi Diana. Always nice to see you here

Kath, Thanks for your lovely comments, as always, I am blessed.

Lori, The illustrated books provide catharsis when I see the lovely art work.

Happy weekend to all.

26Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 5:55 pm

BOOK #26

Seven Kisses in a Row by Patricia MacLachlan

This is not one of the authors strong works, and it can't even compare with the others which are thoughtful and well written.

This is a story of a little girl whose parents went away to a conference, leaving her and her brother in the very capable hands of their Aunt and Uncle.

The Aunt and Uncle are non traditional and furthermore, don't dote on every word and action that the little girl does. She seems to be a brat who gets her way, until the relatives put boundaries on her.

Eventually, she grows to love them.

Not recommended.

27ronincats
Mar 22, 2014, 11:22 pm

Oh, dear, dear Linda, what an obfuscating knot of vicissitude for you to deal with! I'm sending prayers and insurance whammies galore to cut the Gordian knot and make your path smooth. Hugs to you, Will, and Lilly!

28applebook1
Mar 22, 2014, 11:57 pm

I loved the painting that you posted! Hope you feel better soon!

29scaifea
Mar 23, 2014, 10:04 am

Hi, Linda! Keeping you, as always, in my thoughts and hoping that the insurance bit gets cleared up.
I'm so glad that you liked the Taback - Charlie and I love that one.

30PersephonesLibrary
Mar 23, 2014, 10:30 am

Linda, I am sorry about the doctor-insurance setback and I hope everything will turn out fine for you. Also stopping by to say how much I love those Waterhouse paintings. I've already seen his paintings but didn't know the artist's name. ("He gives a shining beauty to women." - perfect description!) Happy weekend!

31Carmenere
Mar 23, 2014, 11:57 am

Awe, Linda, I'm joining in with the others and praying for a quick and positive resolution to your insurance situation. Remain strong my friend.

32PaulCranswick
Mar 23, 2014, 12:16 pm

Trusting you are having a great weekend despite the insurance complications.

33Donna828
Mar 23, 2014, 3:36 pm

Linda, I am thinking of you as you get through this latest setback. It's bad enough to feel poorly without the added insult of insurance woes. I admire your patience and strength as you persevere. And, thank goodness for those beautiful illustrated books that help your through the tough times. As always, thanks for sharing them with us.

34michigantrumpet
Mar 23, 2014, 10:19 pm

Thanks for stopping by my thread. Managed to find you, only to read about your present set back. Heartfelt encouragement and warm positive thoughts being sent your way. An aunt underwent five surgeries in four years to her back. The last one was a charm -- most of the pain is gone and she is slowly regaining strength and mobility. Praying the same outcome for you.

Wow - your grandson Jack is incredibly talented. I've been a season ticket subscriber to the Boston Ballet for more than 20 years. Can't believe he has that much talent at 10 years of age.

Love the pre-Raphaelites and your thread topper.

35Whisper1
Mar 23, 2014, 10:24 pm

A hearty thank you to all. Thanks for visiting. I haven't been on LT as much as I'd like to be, thus I really appreciate your visits.

The recent blood test showed a severe lack of Vitamin D. I'm now take a prescription to remedy this. It may explain the lack of energy and the dull drums I'm having.

I slept until 11:00 a.m. today. While no reading was accomplished, I had a lovely day of walking Lilly and running a few errands.

Happy Week to all.

36mckait
Mar 24, 2014, 7:31 am

I missed the insurance issue, earlier.. found it when Angela commented on FB. That's what I get for being behind and skimming :( I wish this hadn't happened. You must be devastated! I hope that this works out for the very best for you. Sometimes, now and then... seeming setbacks work out to be blessings in disguise. Mayge the perfect doctor for you is another one?

Sending positive energy and healing thoughts your way......

hugs

37SuziQoregon
Mar 24, 2014, 6:00 pm

Sending good thoughts your way

38Smiler69
Mar 24, 2014, 8:14 pm

You know Linda, you've just reminded me that I started taking vitamin D in the fall this year and don't think about it anymore because I just pop it every day along with my other pills, and I must say I think overall I've been much less frequently blue that I tend to be. More of an ever keel, or as even as it'll ever be with me I guess. I'll keep taking it year-round because I don't get out enough even in summer and I try to avoid the sunshine, what with migraines all the time and pale skin that burns at the merest ray of sun. I'm sure you'll see my comment on FB but I really do hope everything gets worked out to your best advantage with this surgery situation. Keeping fingers crossed for you. xx

39Whisper1
Mar 24, 2014, 9:27 pm

>36 mckait: Thanks so much Kath. Because I need the surgery and this seems to be the only person that my surgeon believes can do it with precision and perfection, I'm hoping that out of network can happen.

>37 SuziQoregon: Hi Juli, Thanks for your kind wishes. They matter!

>38 Smiler69: Ilana, You and I and many others in our group suffer from migraines. The neck fusion surgeries have helped with this. However, I'm still a gauge for weather and a nasty headache occurs when barometric pressure changes.

40TinaV95
Mar 24, 2014, 11:03 pm

>7 Whisper1: Oh my! (((Linda!))). I'm so sorry for all your struggles! Keep the faith! Somehow this will work out. I'm not sure how; I rarely understand His plans but I know He takes care of His children! Love you, dear friend!

41tymfos
Mar 25, 2014, 4:37 pm

Linda, I'm just infuriated by the insurance situation! How dreadful! Fingers crossed, prayers offered, and hoping there is a positive resolution to the issue.

42porch_reader
Mar 27, 2014, 8:26 pm

Hi Linda! I'm thinking of you and hoping that you find relief soon.

43Cobscook
Mar 28, 2014, 10:06 am

Hi Linda! I have been taking vitamin D and vitamin B12 daily for over a year and I have found it helps tremendously with my energy levels. Those of us in the northern climes need a little boost in the winter when we don't get a lot of sunshine I think. I hope taking vitamin D is helpful to you as well.

44mckait
Mar 28, 2014, 10:25 am

Have you had any news? Will they be able to work with your insurance? Fingers crossed ...

45scaifea
Mar 28, 2014, 11:42 am

>43 Cobscook: I've been taking those, too, and I agree - they really help with energy levels!

46Whisper1
Mar 28, 2014, 12:21 pm

Hello to all. My energy is low this week and sadly I haven't been on LT as much as I'd like.

This morning I heard from the wonderful Physicians Assistant who works with my surgeon. My surgeon wrote an outstanding letter (I have a copy of it) to the insurance company and clearly outlined the fact that he is a specialist in reconstructive spinal surgeries, and even he cannot perform this surgery. He listed the other surgeons who are experts, but do not feel comfortable in any way to perform the complexity of the surgery needed. He made a great case!

He heard from my insurance that he is not the one who has to make the case, my primary doctor has to do this...gessh.....This is in direct contradiction to the 45 minute conversation I had with my insurance representative who said that the surgeon, who indeed is the specialist and performed three prior surgeries and knows my case, should be the one to pave the way.

What is most sad for me is the amount of time these doctors have to take away from their primary role as physicians and surgeons...The system makes them into frustrated paper pushers!

I've called my primary care doctor and left a message. She is a wonderful lady and I'm quite sure she will help if she can.

It is most difficult for me to ask for assistance from others. Perhaps this is teaching me to let go of some of the control and realize I need help at times.

I feel like a balloon that is deflating. My chipper, kind, other directed personality feels so darn self absorbed. You all have been so nice in listening and caring. Please hang in there. I hope that if I'm able to have this next surgery, I can once again be the person I'm meant to be.

Love to all!

47Smiler69
Mar 28, 2014, 12:28 pm

Linda, little wonder you've feeling low on energy. The kinds of issues you're facing are a huge drain on spirits and energy. I'll keep hoping for the best possible outcome for you. {{{hugs}}}

48mckait
Mar 29, 2014, 8:23 am

See... I really hate it when people are not properly trained, or are simply not conscientious enough to impart correct information. I hate it when people don't do their jobs properly. There is always someone like that, wherever you ( I ) work :-/ it seems. Now look what that bad information has caused.. a huge ripple effect that makes your life more complicated at a time when that is the last thing you need :(

I hope it gets sorted out soon. Sending approval mojo your way..

I hope you can have a relaxed and enjoyable weekend!

49Whisper1
Mar 29, 2014, 9:03 am

Ilana and Kath, Thanks for stopping by. I appreciate your emotional support. It means a lot!

50Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 5:56 pm

NON ILLUSTRATED BOOK #27


Upside Down In The Middle of Nowhere by Julia T. Lamana

Received as an Early Review copy, I was mesmerized from the first to the last page. This is the first book written by the author, and her debut is a stunning, well written tale of the heartbreak and struggles of New Orleans and Hurricane Katrina.

Nine year old Armani is a member of a large, loving family. When news of an impending massive storm is approaching, the only thing Armani worries about is her tenth birthday. When neighbors pack up to evacuate, Armani deliberately does not tell family members. When the storm hits and the levees break , it is the ninth ward that takes the brunt of damage, leaving Armani with guilt and shame.

As the water fills the house and the family flees to the attic, then the roof, there is little doubt that surviving together is possible. When Armani's birthday puppy jumps into the water, her brother heroically tries to save the animal. Attempting to rescue his son, Armani's father jumps into the black, oily, savage water. Their decision has great consequences for the family.

Told from the perspective of Armani, we learn of a beloved grandmother who dies in the attic, a family torn apart, and a city of death and destruction.

All around is chaos. When the storm stops, there is brief hope as the orange/red sky meets the horizon, until the tons of water from broken leeves swallows everything in its path.

It is obvious that the book is well researched because it covers many aspects of the horror of a city unprepared for the terror of Katrina. The water is on fire, houses swirl in the fast currents with trash and bodies along side, dogs bark, shots ring out, helicopter sounds are endless , snake like tree branches are reminders of the height of the water, those who struggle to survive include the good, and the bad, those needing medical attention are dying, and heroes and villans alike struggle to survive.

As Armani's remaining family makes it to the dome, they are instructed not to go in there because of deplorable conditions. Distraught because one of the twin babies is gravely ill, Armani's mother flees to find medical help, leaving Armani to fend for herself, a baby and a sister.

The reader roots for Armani and her family, and grieves for all the loss and destruction.

Highly recommended.

51michigantrumpet
Mar 29, 2014, 10:08 am

Wow! Great review! I'm in the midst of Hurricane Katrina myself with the non-fiction Five Days at Memorial. I can just picture things as you described them. Well done. Going to thumb's up.

52thornton37814
Mar 29, 2014, 3:50 pm

I'm pretty sure that I requested that one as an ER but didn't win it. I will have to consider reading it before I go to NOLA in June. I've only been there once (very briefly) since Katrina, but I went there often back in college when my roommate was from that area.

53TinaV95
Mar 29, 2014, 10:28 pm

>46 Whisper1: Dang it all...My heart and prayers are with you, my friend. (((Linda)))

>50 Whisper1:... Simply stellar review!! Wish listed and thumbs upped!! :)

54lkernagh
Mar 30, 2014, 1:41 pm

Stopping by to see how things are with you Linda and sorry to learn about the medical insurance hassles you are having to deal with. A system that gets that bogged down in paperwork cannot be productive for anyone, and that includes the insurance providers. *sheesh*

55jayde1599
Mar 30, 2014, 1:51 pm

My thoughts are with you, Linda! Take care!

56qebo
Mar 30, 2014, 4:52 pm

>7 Whisper1: they do not carry my insurance
Oh for #*%^. Hoping it gets resolved, but sheesh, how frustrating and worrying to have to deal with this.

57ronincats
Mar 30, 2014, 6:27 pm

{{{{{Linda}}}}}

58Whisper1
Mar 31, 2014, 12:33 pm

Thanks to all for stopping by. Your kind words mean a lot.
For now, it is a waiting game. If I am denied out of network coverage, there is an appeal process, which could entail a peer-peer review by Dr. Vaccaro and another surgeon. What an interesting thing that would be, since Dr. Vaccaro is the only one competent to do the surgery. Who in h....l would be qualified to judge him?

It was a rainy damp weekend, which lends to a lot of pain. I celebrated a friend's birthday and for the rest of the weekend stayed in pjs and read two books.

Hugs to all of you on a sunny Monday morning!

59PaulCranswick
Mar 31, 2014, 12:43 pm

>46 Whisper1: & >58 Whisper1: Insurance companies will always be peopled by faceless scumbags but you will prevail, Linda, I am sure of it.
All the medical practitioners under whose care you are seem to be wonderfully supportive and I really do hope that this gets resolved in your favour without too much protractedness. xx

60Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 5:58 pm

BOOK #28

Yellow Star by Jennifer Roy

While I've read many books regarding the holocaust, this one shone above some others. It packed an emotional whallop.

Like so many others who went through hell under the brutal terror of a crazy man named Adolf Hitler, the author's aunt was shy and hesitant to speak of the unspeakable.

Convincing her that her story was unique and needed to be told, through many phone conversations, Jennifer Roy's Aunt Sylvia provided an in-depth account of the daily terror of living in the Polish ghetto of Lodz.

Told from first-person verse Syvia, later changed her name to Sylvia, was 4 when she and 1/4 of a million Jews were herded like cattle to be enclosed, with no hope of escape, into a cramped section specifically marked for Jews.

Trying desperately to make sense of it all, she learns much of what is happening through snippets of parents conversations. Then, gradually she watches as friends, families are packed into trains. As the years progress, Hitler's plan becomes more evident as increasingly children and older people are marked for extinction.

She and her family survived by luck, intelligence and sheer fear and fortitude. Buried in dirt in a cemetery at night, she was inches away from the boots that could have/would have kicked her and killed her. Hidden in a cellar were eleven other children who miraculously survived.

Interestingly, as Hitler was losing the war and the camp guards became fewer and fewer, overhead in the night time skies were sounds of planes bombing the area. As the group huddled together in an open area, it was the reflection of the mandated yellow stars that shone through, indicating that those in the area were Jews to be rescued.

When Russian pilots rescued the group, there were only 800 people, of which twelve were children. Syvia was one of twelve who were not killed under Hitler's command. Now ten years old, for the first time in years, she had food, safety and a family who could move forward without fear.

Highly recommended.

61cameling
Mar 31, 2014, 2:40 pm

{{Hugs}} Linda. I hope the pain is manageable today. Phooey on our (mis)managed healthcare system. It makes no sense that people who need the most care, are the ones who have the most difficulty getting the right level of care they need.

62Smiler69
Mar 31, 2014, 3:34 pm

Shucks to the pain Linda. I keep hoping for relief for you and a helpful resolution to your current insurance woes. {{{hugs}}}

63mahsdad
Mar 31, 2014, 5:32 pm

>50 Whisper1: Upside Down in the Middle of Nowhere - I too got a copy from ER, and I just started reading it last night. I just sort of skimmed your review (didn't want to learn too much :) ), but I'm glad you liked it. Only a couple pages in, but good so far.

64Whisper1
Apr 1, 2014, 11:26 am

Hi Caro, Thanks for stopping by. I am positive in the fact that I need the surgery and I don't understand how I can be turned away. Maybe I'm naive. It is out of my hands and I'm sending up prayers. I hope all is well with you.

Hello Dear Ilana. Thanks for your frequent visits. I think of you and your wonderful ability to capture an image and place it on paper with the outcome of an incredible art work.

Jeff, I'm anxious to read your review when you are finished. My only negative thing to say is that at the end I thought there were too many coincidental events.

65tapestry100
Apr 1, 2014, 11:40 am

Hello, darling! I'm so far behind on every single thread right now, it's ridiculous, but I wanted to pop in to say hello. I am so desperately sorry to hear about the problems that you've been having! With all of the problems that you have had to go through, and now to fight with the insurance company for coverage is outrageous. I'm sending you wishes upon wishes that this all resolves itself as it is supposed to and you are able to get the help you need.

Lots of love to you, dear.

David

66Storeetllr
Apr 1, 2014, 1:20 pm

What Paul said (>59 PaulCranswick:) ^^^. I am praying for you and sending you supportive thoughts and {{{big hugs}}}.

Great reviews (>50 Whisper1: >60 Whisper1:)! I'm adding both to my ever-growing out-of-control Wishlist.

67souloftherose
Apr 1, 2014, 2:59 pm

Hello Linda! If I may say so myself, that is a lovely opening picture for this thread :-)

>46 Whisper1: I'm so sorry to hear there is another setback about getting your surgery sorted. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers,

68LovingLit
Apr 1, 2014, 3:09 pm

Hi Linda, just here to catch up and seeing that the insurance kerfuffle is still a big problem for you. It does seem very unfair.

69mckait
Apr 1, 2014, 5:58 pm

My goodness, it looks like everyone got here before me, today :)
I hope that ll of the good wishes you are receiving become reality, and soon..

hugs

70AuntieClio
Apr 1, 2014, 11:52 pm

Ooooh Linda, I got another Elizabeth I book today. Elizabeth: The Struggle for the Throne by David Starkey. It was .01 + shipping, how could I resist? :-)

71tymfos
Edited: Apr 2, 2014, 10:17 pm

Linda, how weird that they'd now insist on the primary physician making the case, since it would seem to me that the surgeon would be more qualified to do so. Perhaps, even with the official request coming from your primary doctor, the letter from the surgeon will still have an impact, especially if your primary physician refers to it. Hugs to you!

Upside Down in the Middle of Nowhere sounds good. I wasn't familiar with that one at all. Thanks for the great review!

72Whisper1
Apr 3, 2014, 5:09 pm

>70 AuntieClio: Stephanie, for that price, of course you couldn't resist. Starkey is a very good historian and writer. You won't be disappoinited.

>71 tymfos: Hi Terri. Now, I'm in waiting mode. I'm conflicted because I know it will be a rather serious surgery, and also, I'm so tired from the previous three neck fusions that I wish I could wait a bit. But, I do trust my surgeon and I'll move forward. His office called today to say that if I don't hear from the insurance within two weeks, he will hound them.

73Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 5:59 pm

Terri, I forgot to add that I think you would like the novel I finished last night. It is a real old-fashioned ghost story, well developed and written.

BOOK #29

This House is Haunted by John Boyne

When 21 year old Eliza Caine's beloved father dies suddenly, soon thereafter she learns the house they lived in all her life was not owned by her father, but rented. In order to find shelter, in grief and shock, she makes a very hasty decision to answer an ad for a governess in the country side of Norfolk England.

Arriving at a castle like country manor house of Gaudlin Hall, immediately she suspects all is not right. She is not greeted by adults, but rather two children. As the story progresses, there are bumps in the night, physical abuse by a spirit she cannot see, and all townspeople are very hesitant to talk to her.

Learning that of six previous employees, only one survived, all others died in suspicious fashion she decides to get to the bottom of answers regarding why the house is haunted.
Becoming fond of the young boy in her care and needed to protect both children, she insists on information.

Thereupon she learns that the mother of the children developed a severe attachment to her children and killed the first teacher, while physically beating her husband to near death.

Cared for by a local nurse, the Lord of the manor hangs on barely, secluded in the attic.

While I think the ending spun out of control, I was curious throughout and read the book in rapid fashion.

74Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:02 pm

BOOK #30


Zane and the Hurricane: A Story of Katrina by Rodman Philbrick

An excellent young adult book written by the author of Freak The Mighty, In addition, he is the recipient of a Newbery Honor Award for The Mostly True Adventures of Homer P. Figg.

Zane never knew his father who was killed shortly after his birth. Raised by a loving mother, his life is secure. When his mother discovered relatives that she never knew her husband had, she connects with Zane's grandmother in New Orleans, LA.

Encouraging Zane to spend a week with his grandmother, Zane agrees if he can take his beloved dog with him.

Vowing not to enjoy his trip, he soon develops an attachment to his grandmother. Unfortunately, he happens to visit New Orleans when an impending hurricane to beat all hurricanes is slated to hit New Orleans.

Escaping with his grandmother, and his dog, they find transportation with the minister of his grandmother's church. Driving inch by inch on the road out of New Orleans, he opens the window for relief from the heat, never anticipating that his dog would jump out the window.

Zane quickly decides to find his dog and follows him back to his grandmother's house. As they reach the house, the rain and wind furiously knock at the house, breaking the windows and destroying all power sources. Finding their way to the attic, fearful that they will die, Zane punches a hole and is successful in getting them to the roof.

Shortly thereafter they are rescued by a local, colorful man with a cat in the hat like hat on his head. In addition, in the canoe is a smart mouth, fiesty girl is age.

As together the travel the snake infested waters and watch as the end of the world seems to appear, he grows fond of his traveling companions.

There is danger both in the water and on land. The author does a great job of depicting the terror and chaos of the fall out from the storm and the breaking of the leeves.

The relationships between the three travelers and his trusty dog are heartwarming.

75tymfos
Apr 3, 2014, 8:07 pm

Linda, those last two books both sound good. This House is Haunted was actually already on my Ever-Expanding List, but I think I shall add Zane and the Hurricane, too.

76PaulCranswick
Apr 4, 2014, 12:31 pm

>59 PaulCranswick: You missed my post my dear but I know it wasn't intentional. xx

>60 Whisper1: Interesting review of another holocaust book I simply must track down.

Hope you have a wonderful weekend.

77Whisper1
Apr 4, 2014, 4:55 pm

Paul...sorry for missing the post.

And, thanks for your kind wishes.

78scaifea
Apr 4, 2014, 5:34 pm

Oof, you got me with This House Is Haunted - wishlisted!

79Whisper1
Apr 4, 2014, 6:39 pm

Hi Amber, If you like good old-fashioned ghost stories, this is a good book for you.

80mckait
Apr 4, 2014, 7:03 pm

This House is Haunted by John Boyne sounds good. I have had that one on my radar, but I've been trying to avoid it. So many books.

Just want you to know that I am helping you wait for news... and sending energy your way.

81msf59
Apr 4, 2014, 7:29 pm

Hi Linda- Finally checking in. Another lovely thread. And I loved your review of Upside Down In The Middle of Nowhere. That one is on the WL.

Sorry, to hear about your continuing pain and medical issues. I hope they get this sorted out soon, so you can get some RELIEF!

Have a great weekend.

82thornton37814
Apr 4, 2014, 9:59 pm

I think I might like that story about Katrina except for the snake-infested waters. I could live without those.

83jayde1599
Apr 5, 2014, 9:20 am

Hi Linda!
This House is Haunted sounds intriguing. I will have to put it on my wishlist.

Sending you positive thoughts for your current medical issues! Hope you have a nice weekend!

84countrylife
Apr 5, 2014, 10:26 am

Insurance. It's both a headache and a necessity; my husband hears me fussing about it all the time. I think its time for me to stop acting like a whiny little kid after reading about life in your moccasins. I hope it all gets ok'd, as it obviously should. All your doctors sound wonderful!

85Donna828
Apr 5, 2014, 11:52 am

Linda, sorry that the insurance woes continue. How strange that they would want a GP's recommendation over a specialist in neck fusions. I believe the insurance companies try their best to make the process as convoluted as possible.

You have posted some excellent review lately. I trust your judgment on books for children and refer to your reviews when considering book gifts for my grandchildren. I appreciate the time you take writing those thoughtful reviews.

86Whisper1
Apr 5, 2014, 8:51 pm

>80 mckait: Hi Kath. I think you will like This House is Haunted. Your kind words mean a lot. Thanks ever so much!
>81 msf59: Hi Mark. I appreciate your kindness and outreach. I see that another meet up will be occurring soon. I smile thinking of all these lovely people sitting round a table sharing.
>82 thornton37814: Lori, I agree. I have a very healthy respect of snakes.
>83 jayde1599: Hi Jess! I hope all is well with you. Thanks for stopping by!
>86 Whisper1: Cindy, I would never think of you as a whiny little kid. How nice to see a post from you.
>85 Donna828: Donna, thanks! I visited your thread yesterday and found a delightful opening photo of your grandchildren. Life is good!

87Whisper1
Apr 5, 2014, 9:00 pm

Despite the pain of some days this week, it is a lovely weekend.

Last night we joined our lovely neighbors and went to a local theater to see a wonderful show titled 4 Girls. Wow! Can these women sing. It was so very good to hear the incredible voices. Leslie Uggums, Maureen McGovern as well as Andrea McArdle and Donna McKechnie created an experience worth seeing.

http://statetheatre.org/events/4-girls-4/

It is lovely to have such a beautiful theater a few miles away from our house.

Tonight we met Will's lovely cousin and partner for dinner and laughed for three solid hours. We spent some time discussing vacation plans for this summer, we were excited about possibilities, and then remembered that I don't have a surgery date and thus need to put things on hold for a bit.

Laughter and music are balm for a weary soul!

88Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:02 pm

BOOK #31

Ophelia and the Marvelous Boy by Karen Foxlee


What an incredible book! I give it five stars without hesitation.

Ophelia Jane Worthington-Whittard grieves the recent loss of her mother. Sad, with little courage, the magical trip she is about to take, will change and empower her with self confidence as she hears her mother's voice guiding her to bravery.

When her father is given the task of pulling together a huge display of swords for a local museum, she and her sister Alice spend days inside touring the many floors and many exhibits.

Wandering to the room containing a foreign city where it always snowed, on the third floor in room 303, Ophelia peeks inside a key hole to find a small boy dressed in costume of years gone by.

Listening, she learns his tales regarding magical kingdoms, of trees that protect and wizards who guide. He and his lost magical sword are a dangerous threat. Held hostage for many years, locked away by the curator who in truth is the wicked snow queen, he convinces Ophelia that she is the one to save him and the world.

As Ophelia rescues him by finding keys locked away in museum halls, she has many adventures, including watching in horror as stone lions softly jump from their pedestals to circle and terrorize. When she finds a room containing the evil misery bird who has a wing span as large as the room, she must hurry before he awakens and devours her.

The statues of armored men come alive, and beneath a large plastic cover, there is a white horse carrying a soldier, with marble eyes that come to life as the plastic rustles and wind rushes and pushes so hard that Ophelia is knocked down.

This book is magical, delightful and engaging.

I think I especially liked it because I vividly remember that during my third-grade school trip to the Natural History Museum in New York City, I sat mesmerized and fearful believing that at night the elephants, lions and all taxidermical animals behind thick glass would come to life when the guests left.

Highly recommended!

89foggidawn
Apr 5, 2014, 9:48 pm

>88 Whisper1: You got me with that one.

90Whisper1
Apr 5, 2014, 10:01 pm

>I thought this was one for you. I actually checked your thread to see if you had read it.
I think you will like it.

91Whisper1
Edited: Apr 7, 2014, 11:35 am

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #47

As a few days this week presented themselves as harbingers of spring, I pulled this book of the shelf and enjoyed the lovely images of

Flower Fairies of the Spring by Cicely Mary Barker

It is so lovely that I'll keep this in a place where I can open it each day and carefully inspect all the delightful details of the images.

92Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:07 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #48


Betty Doll by Patricia Polacco

In grief and sorrow, when her mother died, the author packed away her beloved mother's possessions. A year later, she carefully opened a package to discover a hand-made, well-used doll named Betty.

A flood of memories occur, especially when reading the accompanying letter to the author softly outlining the many memories of the way in which Betty was the steadfast source to hold onto in good and difficult times.

Betty was made after a fire occurred, leaving her mother's family with few possessions. Lamenting that the three dolls she owned went with the fire, her grandmother looked on as her mother made a beautiful cloth doll.

Through illness, storms, marriages and divorces, Betty was present.

And, now, Betty comforts the author who misses her mother and rejoices that this special object remains.

93SandDune
Apr 6, 2014, 6:03 am

>91 Whisper1: Flower Fairies of the Spring was a book that my mother had treasured from her childhood in the 1920's. I remember all the pictures really well from my own childhood - the celandine fairy was always my favourite. Is the columbine from a different book as I don't remember that picture in my mother's copy at all?

94scaifea
Apr 6, 2014, 9:18 am

>91 Whisper1: Oh, those are just lovely!

95mckait
Apr 6, 2014, 11:10 am

>86 Whisper1: Linda, I didn't get to bring home This House is Haunted, after all. I took it off the shelf and realized it felt wrong.Turns out it was waterlogged or more likely saturated with coffee or coke. I will have to wait a few days since laura want's to use it to point out to the others that it should not have been shelved that way. No further comment. So....that one is on hold. hard to type, cat lapped x 2. I am hoping all insurance woes are settled soon ...hugs

96Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 12:52 pm

>93 SandDune: Rhian, Right you are. I went back and checked to see that I had copied the wrong image. How great it is that you remember the images so well!

>94 scaifea: Happy Sunday Amber. It is sunny and 60 degrees. Looks like Lilly will be getting a long walk as soon as I'm finished cleaning.

>95 mckait: Yea gads! People not taking care of books drives me nuts! I'm glad you took a nap. Honestly, you have been on my mind often in concern regarding the stress level you've had these last months. I hope Duncan is fully recovered. The love you show to your furkids is beautifully amazing!

97kidzdoc
Apr 6, 2014, 1:04 pm

Linda, the past two times I've looked at your thread I've received a malware alert from avast!, my Internet protection program, about one of the images on your thread that has the following address:

h_www_artchinashop_com__images__paintings__john-will...

Fortunately avast! blocked the apparent malware from installing itself, and it's possible that the link is not a bad one, but I thought I should let you know, just in case.

98Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 1:09 pm

Darryl, Thanks for the heads up on this. I believe it is my opening image of J.W. Waterhouse painting The Soul of the Rose. I'm removing that now. Happy Sunday to you!

99Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 1:35 pm

BOOKS ACQUIRED IN 2014

100kidzdoc
Apr 6, 2014, 1:42 pm

>98 Whisper1: It's your image in message #20 that avast! doesn't like, Linda.

101Whisper1
Edited: Apr 6, 2014, 9:40 pm

BOOKS ACQUIRED IN 2014 #2

102Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 1:57 pm

>100 kidzdoc: Thanks Darryl. It is now deleted. I've learned a lesson not to visit that site.

I appreciate your information.

103scaifea
Apr 6, 2014, 2:42 pm

Linda, I've just finished a book that I think you'll love, from the 1001 Children's Books list: The Story of a Seagull and the Cat Who Taught Her to Fly. Have you read this one yet? If not, I encourage you to see if your library has a copy - you'll really enjoy it, I think!

104Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 9:24 pm

Hi Amber. Many thanks for the recommendation. I'll head to the library tomorrow to see if they have a copy!

105Whisper1
Apr 6, 2014, 9:49 pm

BOOKS ACQUIRED IN 2014 PART 3

106phebj
Apr 6, 2014, 10:03 pm

Hi Linda, I've been off LT for the most part lately focusing on finishing up our new house. I'm sorry to hear about the snafu with the insurance and hope you can obtain a favorable outcome soon. I continue to admire your ability to appreciate the good in life and not dwell on things you can't control. I also know you're human and have your moments of frustration and anger but you don't seem to get stuck there.

107thornton37814
Apr 6, 2014, 10:28 pm

You are coming along nicely on your acquisitions.

108Oberon
Apr 6, 2014, 11:20 pm

Linda, it looks like you are doing quite well on your book acquisitions for the year. I sincerely hope that your insurance gets straightened out soon. It makes me profoundly angry to hear about the messed up insurance system standing between people and the treatment they need.

109Storeetllr
Apr 7, 2014, 12:23 am

>91 Whisper1: I've just ordered Flower Fairies of the Spring "for my niece," but really it's for me because I love the beautiful illustrations so much! I will share it with Dylan, though, when she's a little bit older.

Hope you have a good week and really hope that all your insurance issues get straightened out so you can get the treatment you need.

110kidzdoc
Apr 7, 2014, 8:22 am

>102 Whisper1: You're welcome, Linda!

111cyderry
Apr 7, 2014, 11:05 pm

Linda, I enjoyed Ophelia and the Marvelous Boy too!

112souloftherose
Apr 8, 2014, 6:28 am

>91 Whisper1: Beautiful images Linda. I loved the Flower Fairy books when I was younger.

113Morphidae
Apr 8, 2014, 10:06 am

I love seeing all the book covers. I'm also eagerly awaiting good news about the insurance. I'm sure it will go through. It must! *hugs*

114Whisper1
Edited: Apr 8, 2014, 10:39 pm

Hello to all.

I haven't been on LT as much as I'd like to be. Work is consuming, especially when I'm in a lot of pain. There are days that are good, and a few that make me long for the surgery ASAP.

I heard from my primary care doctor's office assistant who has handled out of network claims before. She truly believes this will go through. There are no guarantees, but she is hopeful.

I hope for an answer by next week. I'm anxious to move forward.

I'm currently reading Gone Girl and despising the husband of the missing wife. It is well written and I haven't figured out what happened to her yet.

It was sunny today..chilly, but sunny. Perhaps spring is just around the corner.



115leperdbunny
Apr 8, 2014, 10:45 pm

*poking* my head in to say hello! :)

116tymfos
Apr 8, 2014, 11:17 pm

Just checking in to see how things are going, Linda. I hate that you're in so much pain. I really hope and pray the insurance gets sorted out.

117cal8769
Apr 9, 2014, 1:52 pm

Sorry to hear of your pain and difficulty with work. Many hugs!
I'm excited for you to finish Gone Girl!

118PiyushC
Apr 9, 2014, 2:31 pm

>114 Whisper1: Gone Girl? You are in for a surprise, or two :)

119laytonwoman3rd
Apr 9, 2014, 2:36 pm

Just checking in to play Pollyanna for a minute. Insurance companies do approve treatment with doctors "out of network" all the time. It's just a process that needs to be followed when the doctor or hospital you're dealing with doesn't have a contract with your particular insurance company. I hope the process moves quickly in your case, and that approval is forthcoming. And then I hope that this surgery really is the one that ends all the suffering for you!

120mahsdad
Apr 9, 2014, 2:40 pm

121TinaV95
Apr 9, 2014, 7:32 pm

Hi Linda... I was hoping that since I've been away for a while, this visit would find that your insurance woes would be all settled. :(

Stupid red tape!

((((Linda))))

Your review of Yellow Star really spoke to me! I thumbs-upped it and have added it to my huge wish list. I've also added This House is Haunted to my wish list as well. Two book bullets in one visit. Ouch!

122mckait
Apr 10, 2014, 8:20 am

Just stopping by to see how things are going.... and to leave a hug :)

123msf59
Apr 10, 2014, 8:25 am

Hi Linda- Nice going on the book hauls. I've been very frugal on my book acquiring, (yes, my wife is smiling somewhere). Mostly I've been snagging ARCS and Bookmooches. More books going out than in, always happy with that.
Hope the week is going well.

124rosalita
Apr 11, 2014, 9:18 pm

Linda, I am trying to get back into the LT groove after being away and I couldn't let anymore time pass before stopping in to say thank you for your kind messages on my thread while I was gone. LT is such a warm, nurturing place to hang out!

125ronincats
Apr 11, 2014, 9:50 pm

I know you aren't getting around to threads much--conserving your energy for the really important things--but didn't want you to completely lose my thread. Just wanted to let you know that the automatic continuation feature didn't work when I started a new thread, so people will have to find their way there AND remember to manually star the thread if they want to keep track of me.
http://www.librarything.com/topic/172583

126Whisper1
Apr 12, 2014, 11:54 pm

Hello to all

I appreciate your outreach. I'm trying to catch up with work. After three short-term disabilities of three-four months each in the last three years, I am way behind on so many parts of my life, both personal and professional.

It grieves me that I haven't had the time or energy to be more active here on LT. Thanks to all in sending positive thoughts regarding out of network possibilities. I was in meetings all day Friday, and I didn't have time to check my phone messages.

I went into the office today to accomplish some things while it was quiet and listened to my voice mail. There were three messages from my primary doctor's office, all from the wonderful person helping to pave the way to Jefferson hospital.

Her voice sounded hopeful, and said we "may" have good news and it looks promising. I will call her Monday after a morning meeting that I have to attend. Please continue to cross fingers, send up prayers/energy my way.

Again, I am overwhelmed by the beauty of this group. It so amazes me to know there are so many good, kind, special people in this group! This is no small thing given the real fact that so many people are nasty rather than nice.

127AuntieClio
Apr 13, 2014, 2:48 am

>126 Whisper1: Linda, I hope your insurance gets straightened out next week. What a weight off that would be. :-) Positive energy your way.

128drneutron
Apr 13, 2014, 10:28 pm

I agree - I'm hoping that everything falls into place, you have a successful surgery, and this takes care of the pain!

129Whisper1
Apr 14, 2014, 12:15 pm

>127 AuntieClio: Thanks Stephanie. I appreciate your outreach!

>128 drneutron: Hi There Jim, Thanks very much for your kindness!

130Whisper1
Edited: Apr 14, 2014, 12:21 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #49

The Day The Crayons Quit by Drew Daywait

What a fun book this is. Written by specific colors, the grievences are mentioned. Some of them laugh right out loud, purple wants to be kept in line, black wants more than simply used as outline while yellow and gold vie for the correct color of the sun. Pink wants to be referenced as more than a girls color. Unlike the others, green is very content, but bothered by the gold/yellow conflict.

131RosyLibrarian
Edited: Apr 14, 2014, 12:25 pm

>126 Whisper1: Best wishes for your health, Linda!

>130 Whisper1: LOVE this children's book. I ordered it for the library I previously worked at. I think it is such a fun idea and wonderfully illustrated.

132Whisper1
Apr 14, 2014, 12:43 pm

>131 RosyLibrarian: Hi Marie, thanks for stopping by!

133Whisper1
Edited: Apr 14, 2014, 12:53 pm

BOOK #50

The Butterfly by Patricia Polacco

I'm learning that children's illustrated books are written for all ages. Some books, like those written by Polacco are filled with stories of real-life experiences.

The Butterfly was written when the author learned that her Aunt was part of the French resistance during the Holocaust. When her cousin found a young girl in her bedroom, she was startled and then learned that she and her family lived in the basement of her house.

They were not the first family that her Aunt assisted in risking her life to try to save those who were helpless. The title represents the hope and beauty of life to be set free.

This is a tale of courage and hope. Wonderfully written and illustrated, it is compelling and worth the time and energy spent in reading.

Amber and Brenda (Brenpike) encouraged me to read the books of Polacco, and I'm ever glad they did!

134Whisper1
Edited: Apr 14, 2014, 1:32 pm

ILLUSTRATED BOOK #51

January's Sparrow by Patricia Polacco

When my grand daughter excitedly told me that her fifth grade class was reading this book, she used this as a teaching/reading lesson to me. She loves to pretend she is a teacher, and I loved listening to the inflection and excitement in her voice as she read January's Sparrow with/to me.

Using vivid illustrations, Polacco begins the book with the injustice of, and brutal beating of January Sparrow, a man who was welcomed into the Crosswhite family when he was taken from his mother and sold into slavery when he was a young man. As the bond grows, young Sadie is particularly fond of January, and, as a gift he hand carves a beautiful sparrow.

Now, as an adult, January rebels against the cruelty of the plantation owners. Attempting to flee to the north, he is caught and returned. He is severely beaten as the Crosswhite family is forced to observe. Slavery is quite a difficult subject, and as Kayla spoke of the horror of the beating, I heard a catch in her voice and saw tears in her eyes.



When the Crosswhite family learned that the next day their sons were to be sold and taken from the family, they chose to flee. The beauty of the underground railroad shines through in this book as the Crosswhite's flee to the free state of Michigan.

Landing in the home of a gentle, kind woman who sheltered and fed the family, they decided to take a break and live in Marshall, Michigan for a spell. Still, they lived under the fear that their owners would hunt them down. While there were free states, the law was that anyone harboring slaves would be prosecuted.

When the plantation owners track and hunt down the Crosswhites, attempting to retrieve their property, there is a peaceful, non-violent protest of the members of Marshall.

Fleeing to Canada, the Crosswhites, eventually find safety. After the Civil War, they return to the community that saved and nurtured them and lived their days in peace.

Told from the voice of Sadie, the young daughter of the Crosswhite family, the story is more meaningful as she processes the horror and abject unfairness of slavery. And, as Sadie grows to trust, she and her family land of safe ground.

Highly recommended for children and adults!

135Smiler69
Apr 14, 2014, 2:10 pm

Wow Linda, I can't wait to hear the news, and I'm sure you must be even more impatient for it. Crossing all crossables for you my dear.

Very nice bunch of illustrated books of late. Polacco is a must, and that crayon book looks mighty appealing to me too. I have a whole bunch of illustrated kid's books here brought back from the library over the past few weeks to get to. They're a real joy when I make time for them.

136scaifea
Apr 14, 2014, 5:15 pm

>130 Whisper1:: Charlie absolutely *loves* this one! He likes to quote the Peach crayon before bathtime, when he streaks through the house saying, "I'm naked!" Ha! This one is a frequent read at Scaife Manor, as Charlie requests it at least a couple of times a week.

137michigantrumpet
Apr 14, 2014, 6:46 pm

Hoping for good news on the insurance/surgery front. I think you were possibly going to hear something today? Sending positive thoughts ...

138Whisper1
Apr 14, 2014, 11:50 pm

>137 michigantrumpet: Thanks Marianne.

I rec'd. word today from my primary care doctor that my insurance will allow out of network. I can schedule an appointment with Dr. Alexander Vaccaro at the Rothman Institute in Thomas Jefferson Hospital!

This is step one. Dr. Vaccaro's office then will need to pave the way for out of network to cover the surgery. But, logically I'm thinking that since they approved the visit, they will approve the surgery.

I'm both relived and a tad concerned about the scope of this very extensive surgery. But, I've been strong so far and if this is what it takes to address this constant pain, I'm ready!

Thanks again to all. Words cannot express my gratitude for the support!

139AuntieClio
Apr 14, 2014, 11:54 pm

Go Linda!!!

140foggidawn
Apr 15, 2014, 12:11 am

>138 Whisper1: Sounds like a big step in the right direction!

141brenpike
Apr 15, 2014, 1:11 am

Terrific news, Linda. Hope the visit makes you feel more comfortable about the procedure.

142michigantrumpet
Apr 15, 2014, 5:46 am

>138 Whisper1: so glad for the news. Hoping it turns out exactly as you want it.

143scaifea
Apr 15, 2014, 7:06 am

>138 Whisper1: Oh, that's wonderful news!!

144ffortsa
Apr 15, 2014, 9:26 am

oh, that is wonderful news, although I can understand your trepidation. I hope there are no more insurance hoops to jump through on your way to a full resolution.

145rosalita
Apr 15, 2014, 9:49 am

Linda, I'm so happy to hear the potential good news about having insurance coverage for your surgery! I hope you are able to get an appt with the doctor sooner rather than later.

146torontoc
Apr 15, 2014, 10:11 am

Great news!

147SandDune
Apr 15, 2014, 11:59 am

>138 Whisper1: great news Linda!

148Oberon
Apr 15, 2014, 12:00 pm

Very good news. I hope your winning streak holds and this doctor can help.

149ronincats
Apr 15, 2014, 2:00 pm

I'm very glad to hear that step one has been taken!

150jnwelch
Apr 15, 2014, 2:56 pm

Great news, Linda!

151Berly
Apr 15, 2014, 4:34 pm

You've got your toe in the door! Whoohoo!! Hope things continue to move quickly in the right direction. Big Hugs.

152DeltaQueen50
Apr 15, 2014, 6:04 pm

I am glad that you are able to take the first steps toward getting surgery done, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it all works out for you, Linda.

153Whisper1
Apr 15, 2014, 9:41 pm

Hi to all, and thanks for your posts. Unfortunately, I was very frustrated today when I called Thomas Jefferson to make the appointment. It took 45 minutes of waiting until I heard a non recorded voice. I then was told that they did not have any of my records....Of course they do, I have copies of what my surgeon sent to them.

And, I was told that the out of network would be for one visit only, and they know I need more than one time to see Dr. Vacarro, so in effect, it is senseless for me to go to Thomas Jefferson.

I was so frustrated that there are no words for my level of disbelief.

I will contact my surgeon and primary care doctors tomorrow. God, I hate that I have to lean on them so much.

The only other option I can think of is to insist I see Dr. Vacarro even if for only one visit, then I can obtain information regarding what he recommends. If he thinks I can wait until January 2015, I can then change my insurance to one they will accept. It means I'll be in tremendous pain until then, but by now, pain is my steady companion.

Truly, there are worse things to have than degenerative neck disease. I am very mindful of my beloved friend Phyllis who died at the age of 54 She would gladly have had degenerative disk disease instead of ovarian cancer.

How fortunate I am to have something that can be surgically remedied. I simply need to be patient, and it is very difficult to do so right now.

154qebo
Apr 15, 2014, 9:49 pm

>153 Whisper1: Oh how extremely frustrating! I'd think it worthwhile to make an appointment so you have it in hand as you get everything sorted out.

155scaifea
Apr 16, 2014, 6:58 am

Oh, medical insurance in this country! Argh! So frustrating. I have faith that it'll work out for you, though, somehow. Keeping you in my thoughts, as always, Linda.

156michigantrumpet
Apr 16, 2014, 7:03 am

Just received a lovely package in the mail yesterday. Yahoo! The book arrived! I'm so excited and so very grateful. How incredibly generous of you. I have several other books which I must address, but it has moved immediately close to the peak of Mount TBR. You are the best.

Hoping such a lovely act improves your karma. Thinking positive thoughts for you.

157LauraBrook
Apr 16, 2014, 12:10 pm

My Dear, Sweet Linda. It breaks my heart to read about your continued pain and insurance struggles. That's a whole other kind of pain! I'm praying for a quick resolution and cooperation from all involved insurance idiots agencies to get you the surgery, and pain relief, that you so desperately need. Even though I'm not around so much lately, please know that you are often in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS))) and lots of love to you, Will, and Lilly. *smooch*

158Smiler69
Apr 16, 2014, 1:22 pm

Oh Linda, such trials and tribulations! I'm so sorry you've got these nasty insurance politics keeping you hanging on a string like that, most unfair and downright evil. You take your suffering with such philosophy, and I admire you for it, though pain of the sort you must experience is no way to live day in, day out. I'm just really happy to see you have so many loving supporters keeping you in their thoughts and encouraging you on throughout this difficult period.

You've inspired me to pick up so many great children's illustrated books, and since I went through a mini slump again this week, it was a great comfort to have a huge pile of them from the library waiting on my coffee table to be picked up. I had a big session with them yesterday and it was definitely satisfying, and very comforting too. Among them was Polacco's Emma Kate, which I picked up based on your recommendation, and I've also got Ibatoulline with The Serpent Came to Gloucester waiting in the wings, among others. Great stuff!

159Berly
Apr 16, 2014, 3:24 pm

Go to Jefferson. Keep the one appointment and perhaps it will turn into more. Insurance is a love/hate thing.

160tymfos
Edited: Apr 16, 2014, 4:43 pm

What a nightmare for you, dear Linda! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Didn't it occur to the folks at Jefferson that the one approved visit might lead to further authorized visits? Obviously, the surgeon is not going to operate on you the first time he sees you. Sheesh!

I seem to recall insurance hassles when my dad had a procedure at Jefferson years ago. I think it eventually worked out. The doctor was good, but I didn't like their office people.

161mckait
Apr 17, 2014, 9:33 am

What ^ said. Nightmare. I hope that you end up being approved for all that you need. Anything to make life difficult :( Sending whammies for successful chopping through red tape, quick surgery and rapid recovery.

hugs

162cyderry
Apr 17, 2014, 11:19 am

Drat!!Drat!!! DRAT!!!

I cannot understand how insurance companies can remain as they are! It would seem to me that they are so many people that are damaged by them, that somehow consumers would be able to find a way to make them do the right thing. Guess that's wishful thinking.

I wish there was something I could do, but alas, no.
I will keep praying that those insurance idiots finally get some compassion as well as brains.

hugs....

163Whisper1
Apr 17, 2014, 9:20 pm

Thanks everyone! I'm so weary of it all. I'm focusing on the positive. The Physicians Assistant for the surgeon who performed the three fusions is ever so wonderful. She called my office tonight after 5:00, and, after we both had a long day, we laughed together. She is going to call me tomorrow with news regarding this mess.

She is going to contact the woman at Thomas Jefferson who was so curt -- the one who said I should not come in for only one visit -- and she is going to tell the woman to wait by the fax machine while she re- faxes all the information!

In the mean time, I'm calling the lovely lady in my primary care doctor's office who graciously paved the way and worked with my insurance to obtain this out of network clearance. I'm asking if it was her understanding that only one visit was permitted. I know she will badger the insurance company until she gets this solved.

It is very difficult for me to rely on people and ask for help. This entire 4-5 year experience continues to be a blessing in disguise. I'm having to learn that I cannot do it all myself. Pain is a humbling thing and teaches limitations.

And, as I write, I have tears just thinking of all of the outreach and support from this wonderful group of people! Thanks, and thanks again!

164Whisper1
Apr 17, 2014, 9:30 pm

>154 qebo: Thanks, and many thanks for stopping by!
>155 scaifea: You continue to be a dear, sweet lady and I am blessed to know you.
>156 michigantrumpet: Thanks for letting me know you rec'd. the book. I think you will enjoy it. Thanks also for your kind words.
>157 LauraBrook: How nice to hear from you. I hope all is well with you, and with your mother
>158 Smiler69: Hi Ilana, I'm sorry you are experiencing a mini slump..I'm sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. I have Amber to thank for inspiring me to dive into the children's illustrated book genre. I know you appreciate art and, like me are calmed by the lovely illustrations.
I very much like Patricia Polacco's books. She has a rich heritage from which she draws her stories. I love the warm depiction of the grandmother figure. She is someone I'd like to meet.
>159 Berly: Hi Kim, How nice to see a post from you.
>160 tymfos: Terri, I agree, the office people do not represent the high level of accolades I hear of Thomas Jefferson. I know the quality and caring my surgeon provides and he was trained at Jefferson, by the doctor he is recommending I see. Yet, each person I talked to via phone this week has been curt and down right nasty.
>161 mckait: Thanks Kath, I know you've had some rough journeys this last year. How nice of you to reach out to me.
>162 cyderry: I know you are in a lot of pain. Thanks for making me smile.

165Whisper1
Edited: Aug 13, 2014, 6:12 pm

BOOK #32


Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn

After struggling to finish this book, I'm not sure how to write a review.

I'll start by saying the book is about 100 pages too long. The author has a good story, can write exceedingly well, but it seemed that like the characters in her book, she was manipulative, and impressed with her writing abilities, wanting to keep writing just to show how good of an author she is. This ploy backfired for me.

The story is intriguing, the plot is explosive and at first the reader is pulled in. Told from differing perspectives, we learn just how emotionally sick both characters are.

Amy and Nick Dunne started an obsessive relationship that led to marriage. On their fifth year anniversary, Amy disappears. Nick seems detached and unconcerned. He lost his writing/journalist job and, with his wife, flees from New York City back to his home town of Carthage, Missouri to allegedly take care of his dying mother.

At first the chapters written from Amy's perspective drag the reader into a disdain for Nick, for his weakness, for his selfishness and lack of support for his poor misguided wife who loves a man who no longer seems to care about her.

She is drop dead gorgeous, rich and highly intelligent. He is a ladies man who is charming and charismatic.

From Nick's perspective we learn of an affair with a young student he met while teaching at a local junior college. We learn he is weary of Amy's games and is emotionally drifting in black, mucky water.

Soon, we learn that Amy's comments are from a diary that she is using to frame her husband for murder. Hoping the police will find this diary after she is long gone, will place a nail in the coffin for Nick and lead to his arrest.

Systematically, Nick is pulled into a very dark abyss as all too soon the clues left behind intentionally lead him to know that a very sick game is played wherein at all stages, Amy's manipulation leads to distrust and judgment of Nick as the noose tightens and he is indeed the only suspect.

This is a very sick relationship, and as the pages go on and on and on, the reader feels sorry for no one, and that they both truly deserve each other.

Difficult to judge just who is more sociopathic than the other, the reader soon grows weary of never ending muck of love gone very, very wrong.

I won't say not to read the book, but I will mention that you might tire of the tennis game of explosive hits that never lead to a good game. As the balls fly back and forth and back and forth, the only one who wearies is the reader, while the characters continue to play on and on and on and on, long after the lights are turned off the court.

166tututhefirst
Apr 17, 2014, 10:30 pm

>91 Whisper1: Flower Fairies of the Spring really looks like something we could use here in Maine! Our snow has finally melted (knock wood) and I actually have 4 crocus blooming. Of course they are blooming on the side of the hill down from the bulb garden where they were originally planted, so I won't let Bob mow the lawn there until they're gone. Maybe we can get a few of those fairies to come and sprinkle some magic dust.

Speaking of magic dust, maybe we should get them to go wave magic wands over the insurance a--holes to get their act together so we can get our wonderful Linda fixed for once and for all. Crossing fingers that the situation gets resolved positively very soon.

In the meantime, perhaps the Easter bunny will bring you something delicious and pain-killing.

167tututhefirst
Apr 17, 2014, 10:43 pm

>165 Whisper1: Gone Girl What a great review! You nailed it perfectly. I had to read this one last summer - it somehow was one of the three finalists for last year's Maine Readers' Choice Award. Thank goodness it didn't win. I too thought it was too long, too manipulative, and I absolutely agree that two more disagreeable characters may not ever have been written.

168Whisper1
Apr 17, 2014, 10:47 pm

Hi Tina

Thanks, as always, for your kind words. No wonder you and Cheli are sisters--both kind, loving, caring and sensitive.

I may have previously mentioned way back when I learned you lived in Maine, that Will and I contemplated retiring to Maine. But, after this winter, we decided against it.

Thanks for the affirmation of my review of Gone Girl. I know so many people really liked the book. I was not impressed with the never-ending drama. I avoid people like that, and I don't like it in books that I read either.

169cal8769
Apr 18, 2014, 3:29 am

Great review of Gone Girl. I agree with all you said but that is what I liked about the book, other than the length. She was beating a dead horse after awhile. Lol The drama is what kept me reading. I hate real life drama, maybe I need it in my books :). I couldn't wait to see what kind of nonsense they put each other through. They were very disagreeable characters and I think that's why the drama and manipulation didn't turn me off.

I have been following your insurance woes and I must admit that after 20 years in healthcare, I am so fed up with no one wanting what is best for patients and families. Insurance companies saving a buck at the expense of people's lives, hospitals and nursing homes sadly understaffed so the caretakers are burnt out and over worked, pharmacutical companies charging ridiculous prices to people so they can't afford the medications they need. It's disgusting.

170PiyushC
Edited: Apr 18, 2014, 5:53 am

>165 Whisper1: Nice review, Linda! I read this book towards the end of the last year and I, too, felt that the book suffered from a few pages and sections too many. I had closed my review with, "There is also a bit of redundancy, some of the sub-plots, the book could have done very well without; a more compact book would have definitely got more pointers from me."

The full (albeit short) review, if you are interested, can be found at http://thereadersdilemma.blogspot.com/2013/12/75-gone-girl-by-gillian-flynn.html

171thornton37814
Apr 18, 2014, 7:17 am

>169 cal8769: I had a friend who posted her one day hospital cost of over $950,000 to Facebook the other day. Quite ridiculous!

172mckait
Apr 18, 2014, 7:48 am

I'm really glad that there is someone in your own doctors office who is ready, willing, and able o advocate for you. That will help. Too bad it needs to be done, and that the people at the hospital have so far been so unhelpful. This pushes one of my "buttons". Grr.

Crossing crossables...

173kidzdoc
Apr 18, 2014, 10:13 am

Fingers crossed for good news, Linda!

174laytonwoman3rd
Apr 18, 2014, 12:00 pm

>165 Whisper1: Excellent review, Linda. I had already decided I could leave this one alone, but you've removed any doubt that may have lingered.

Still keeping a good thought for a beneficial outcome to your medical insurance situation.

175ronincats
Apr 18, 2014, 12:34 pm

Linda, I'm so sorry about the curt lady, but happy you have some people in the offices of both your doctors who are going to bat for you. I wish I could hug the pain away, but since I can't, I just want to be there for you.

And that was a wonderful review of Gone Girl. No, I haven't read it, but more than any other review I've read, this one makes explicit why I'm not going to read it.

176Whisper1
Apr 18, 2014, 12:35 pm

>169 cal8769:, You fit the nail on the head! Thanks!
>170 PiyushC: So good to see a post from you. I remember a few years back that you were changing jobs. Is life good to you?
>171 thornton37814: Lori, by mistake I once rec'd. an itemized accounting of the cost of the use of the surgical room (nothing else, just this) and it was a mere $349,000 just for the surgeon to be using the operating room.

I have no easy answers. Obama Care, while well intended is very unpopular. I wish he wouldn't have lied about the ability to keep your coverage...yikes. And, people who are already strapped financially cannot afford to pay more than they did with their original policy.

The lovely assistant to Dr. Flaytan (the surgeon who did my prior fusions) called a few minutes ago. She also called Thomas Jefferson and spoke to the woman who was so rude to me. She told me that she also was treated rudely by this person. Ann is a wonderful person and I'm so fortunate to know her. She basically told this Thomas Jefferson scheduler that I must see Dr. Vacarro and if only one visit, then they will fight with the insurance company on my behalf for another. But, it is not up to the scheduler to determine what my surgeon is requesting!

All paperwork will be re-faxed and disks of MRIs and xrays will be in their hands by Monday. I will call again on Tuesday for an appointment. Thank God that through this terrible system there are kind, caring people who help pave the way!

>172 mckait:, Hello Dear Friend. As always, I appreciate you!
>173 kidzdoc: Hi Darryl. Thanks for your photos and comments regarding your London trip. I felt as though I was walking with you. I hope a good holiday is headed your way.
>174 laytonwoman3rd: Hi Linda. All good wishes to you for a lovely holiday weekend.

177Berly
Apr 18, 2014, 1:57 pm

Moving forward, slowly but surely. I love that you always look for the silver lining in your problems. You are an amazing woman.

178connie53
Apr 18, 2014, 2:36 pm

Hi Linda, There is no way I can read every post in your thread. But I hope everything will work out soon!

179tymfos
Apr 18, 2014, 4:31 pm

>176 Whisper1: I don't understand how such a rude person as the woman at Jefferson manages to keep her job. :(

180AuntieClio
Apr 18, 2014, 6:13 pm

Linda, I enjoyed Gone Girl but disliked the same things about it you did. The encounter at the cabins left me scratching my head, "Wait? She's supposed to be this super smart plan for every factor woman and she didn't see that coming?" Plus, the part with her old boyfriend was just ..... didn't fit.

I liked the ending mostly because it fits my worldview better but I would have liked a different outcome.

And I'm sorry about your continued issues with health insurance. Thanks to ACA, I do have insurance and with the subsidy is something I can sorta squeak into my "budget," such as it is. Living off savings sucks.

Here's hoping this gets resolved for you soon.

181Whisper1
Apr 18, 2014, 9:00 pm

I was amazed when I added Gone Girl to my LT library, it did not reflect any reviews. Now that I've written a review, still it indicates "none: for the review category????

182msf59
Apr 18, 2014, 9:34 pm

Hi Linda- I've been following your adventures & misadventures. I hope you get everything worked out and get this surgery on the schedule. I would sure like to see you finally get some relief.

I LOVED Gone Girl. It completely worked for me. Although, I agree they were both repellent characters. Hey, if we all agreed on everything it would get pretty boring.

Hugs to my pal!

183AuntieClio
Apr 18, 2014, 10:28 pm

>181 Whisper1: Linda I noticed that too. But if you go to the book page and use the link in the left nav, that shows reviews. The one at the top doesn't appear to be working.

184cyderry
Apr 19, 2014, 5:38 pm

Gone Girl - since two of my favorite people found the book lacking, I am definitely removing it from any list of mine it might have been on.

Hope you are feeling maybe even a little bit better? Maybe the Easter bunny will bring you something to put a smile on your face.

185Whisper1
Edited: Apr 19, 2014, 11:07 pm

Today I volunteered at my local library. My friends, the librarian and her daughter worked very hard to host another YA festival. we gave away 300 totes to those 19 and under, and there were 48 YA authors present.

At one point, the fire alarm went off and everyone had to evacuate. We knew there wasn't a fire, our fear -- there were too many people in the library and we might have to tell some to leave.

The turn out was incredible. And, hats off to my friends who made this work smoothly with a wonderful time for all.

Most impressive was that my friends were able to cull a large group of wonderful teens who were incredible in helping plan and expediting the many details. The youth had a book sale, and during a break, I managed to buy the following -- paperbacks five for a dollar..hard cover books 3 for a dollar. I spent a total of six dollars for:

1) Skinny by Donna Cooner
2) The Castle in the Attic by Elizabeth Winthrop
3) Tears of A Tiger by Sharon M. Draper
4) The Wonderful story of Henry Sugar by Roald Dahl
5) Sunrise Over Fallujah by Walter Dean Myers
6) There's an Owl in the Shower by Jean Craighead George
7) Perloo The Bold by Avi
8) Emily Windsnap and the Monster from the Deep by Liz Kessler
9) The Sign of the Beaver by Elizabeth George speare
10) Call It Courage by Armstrong Sperry
11) A Way With The Birds by Susan Faith
12) The Quiet Little Woman A Christmas Story by Louisa May Alcott
13) A Map of the Known World by Lisa Ann Sandell
14) Alice in the Know by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor
15) Miracle on 49th Street by Mike Lupica
16) As Ever, Gordy by Mary Downing Hahn
17) The Thorn and the Blossom by Theodora Goss
18) That Was Then, This Is Now by S.E. Hinton
19) The Doll In The Garden by Mary Downing Hahn
20) King Solomon's Mines by Rider Haggard
21) The Ghost on the Stairs by Chris Eboch
22) Montmorency Thief Liar Gentleman by Eleanor Updale
23) Harry Houdini by Vicki Cobb
24) The Lost Boy by Dave Pelzer
25) The Singer by Calvin Miller

186Whisper1
Apr 19, 2014, 11:22 pm

BOOK HAUL PART TWO OF THE YA FESTIVAL

26) The Book Shop by Penelope Fitzgerald
27) The Five Ancestors Monkey by Jeff Stone
28) Doctor Dolittle by Hugh Lofting
29) The Girl Who Owned a City by O.T. Nelson
30) Following My Own Footsteps by Mary Downing Hahn
31) The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck
32) Sarah's Ground by Ann Rinaldi
33) What I Saw and How I Lied by Judy Blundell
34) The Pigman by Paul Zindel
35) Number The Stars by Lois Lowry
36) Odd Weird & Little by Patrick Jennings

At a tad over .16 a book, I made a great deal.

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187TinaV95
Apr 19, 2014, 11:27 pm

Oh Linda... the roller coaster that your insurance company is making you ride is just unbelievable! I can only imagine your level of frustration! I'm frustrated for you and I'm simply reading about your experiences, not living through the day-to-day pain of it. I'm just so sorry.

Keep the faith, dear one.

I'm wishing for you a very blessed, safe, and pain free (as close as possible, being realistic here), and

188ronincats
Apr 19, 2014, 11:28 pm

What a great occasion, Linda! I hope you had great joy of it.

189Storeetllr
Apr 20, 2014, 12:25 am

Hi, Linda! What a roller coaster ride you've been on with the insurance b.s. (Sorry, but it is.) I'm praying that the saga ends soon with you getting the care you need.

Lovely story about the library's YA festival, and what a haul you made!

Happy Easter!

190Carmenere
Apr 20, 2014, 7:48 am



Happy Easter, Linda!

191foggidawn
Apr 20, 2014, 10:29 am

>186 Whisper1: Fantastic book haul!

192Crazymamie
Apr 20, 2014, 10:36 am



Happy Easter, Linda!

193scaifea
Apr 20, 2014, 12:31 pm

Wow, what a book haul! And the YA festival sounds amazing.

194thornton37814
Apr 20, 2014, 1:38 pm

>186 Whisper1: I had to check out what that The Five Ancestors Monkey was all about. That word "ancestors" got my attention. Looks like you had a good haul though.

195jayde1599
Apr 20, 2014, 7:26 pm

Happy Easter Linda!

I really enjoyed your review of Gone Girl - that is exactly how I felt!

Regarding your retiring to Maine comment - this winter was awful - and I enjoy snow! We went for a hike today on a small mountain in southern Maine and there were still patches of snow and ice. We had a squall last week and when Owen heard my husband shoveling, he began to bawl, "He can't shovel - that means it's still winter!"

Your library seems to have the best sales! Nice book haul!

196countrylife
Apr 21, 2014, 10:29 am

Thumbs up for a great review of Gone Girl! I gave it a try a few months back, but after one disc, I gave up; just couldn't get past the hyper-drama.

I thank God for the wonderful people in your life who continue to help you through the insurance mess. I hope all their effort pays off for you!

197jnwelch
Apr 21, 2014, 11:32 am

I read Number the Stars recently for the first time, Linda, and thought it was topnotch. My wife and I are talking about re-reading The Giver and then reading (for the first time) the three following it.

198ffortsa
Apr 21, 2014, 1:21 pm

Just posting to let you know I've been lurking all along, following your progress and your reading. Fingers crossed that the idiotic insurance problem will dissolve shortly.

199Smiler69
Edited: Apr 21, 2014, 8:04 pm

Hi Linda, thinking of you and hope all is as well as can be right now. Super book haul! I'm sorry you ended up hating Gone Girl, but I can see why that would be. I personally couldn't put it down and finished it in record time, but it's definitely one of those divisive books. It certainly made me glad I'm single, for one! :-)

200richardderus
Apr 21, 2014, 9:52 pm

Linda, delurking to add to the hugging and smooching of our dear and wonderful Whisper, and whammying some compassion up for the insurance kleptocrats, and registering the amazed awe of your book-buying skills!

201tututhefirst
Apr 22, 2014, 1:16 pm

>185 Whisper1: >186 Whisper1: WOW! What a fantastic haul. And what a fabulous idea for Young Adults. I swear, I may have to load my granddaughter into Cheli's new van this summer and we're going to take a road trip to visit the bestest YA librarian around.

202Whisper1
Apr 22, 2014, 11:56 pm

Hello to all, and thanks for stopping by

I rec'd. good news today. I was able to schedule "ONE" appointment (as the scheduler reminded me again!) with Dr. Alexander Vacarro at Thomas Jefferson hospital. I'm relieved beyond words.

I also rec'd. documentation from my insurance company, stating that if more visits are needed, I can continue with the same process that netted the first visit.

I'm Philadelphia bound May 9th at 9:20! Please send a shining ray of hope to the fifth floor of Jefferson hospital. From all I've read and heard of this specialist, he is top notch. Noted as one of the 28 best surgeons in North America, I have hope that he can perform the surgery needed to bring release from near-constant pain.

203richardderus
Apr 23, 2014, 12:02 am

Yay for May! Ninth is fineth! *smooch*

204AuntieClio
Apr 23, 2014, 12:02 am

Oh Linda, I am so happy for you. This is great news! If your doctor thinks this is the guy, then there's no doubt that he's your guy. Hopeful whammies going your way.

205Whisper1
Apr 23, 2014, 12:03 am

Thanks also for the Easter wishes. It was a lovely sunny day with temps in the high 60s.

Here are a few photos taken. It was so wonderful to see the color green and note that the perennials are beginning to rise from the winter sleep to push up through the earth to the sun.

A photo of me and lovely grand daughter Kayla.

206Storeetllr
Apr 23, 2014, 12:28 am

Great news! So happy for you. I bet May 9 can't come soon enough for you! Lovely photo of you and Kayla, and who's that beautiful dog? Also, is that a garden I see in the rear of the second pic?

207cal8769
Apr 23, 2014, 1:10 am

Wonderful news and I love the family pictures.

208brenpike
Apr 23, 2014, 1:12 am

Great photo of you, Kayla, Will and Lilly. . . So nice to see that smile of yours!

Good news about the May 9th appt - hooray

209qebo
Apr 23, 2014, 8:47 am

>202 Whisper1: I'm Philadelphia bound May 9th

Any chance you could stick around until the next day?
Philadelphia meetup thread.

210Whisper1
Apr 23, 2014, 11:39 am

>203 richardderus:, Thanks, as always, for your kind thoughts!
>204 AuntieClio: HI Stephanie...My thoughts exactly!
>205 Whisper1: Hi Mary, the garden is in the background (toward the left), and the lovely dog is Lilly. I talk about her a lot because she is sheer joy! Most recently my partner Will taught her how to go down the driveway and obtain the morning paper. When the paper is heavy with fliers, it takes her three times to put in in her mouth, drop it, and then go through the process again, until she barks and barks because she is ever so proud of herself.
>207 cal8769: Hi Carrie. I believe you live in central PA...Are you any where near State College. The reason I ask is because Monica Skeens and I may be meeting this summer in State College. How lovely if you could join us.
>208 brenpike: Did you see the post regarding a Philadelphia meet up? Any chance you are interested or able to do this?
>209 qebo:, Thanks for letting me know about this. I am going to try to do this!!!! Last year was such great fun.

211qebo
Apr 23, 2014, 11:43 am

>210 Whisper1: I should warn you that shortly after I posted on your thread, Darryl PM'd that he may have a conflicting obligation that day. And lauralkeet was iffy. If you'll be there I'll get there, but it's definitely not going to be the big event it was last year.

212ronincats
Apr 23, 2014, 12:28 pm

So glad you were able to get that consultation scheduled, Linda. And such lovely pictures to share!

213SuziQoregon
Apr 23, 2014, 2:59 pm

So glad you were able to schedule an appointment!

214michigantrumpet
Apr 23, 2014, 3:12 pm

Hooray for May 9th! Holding thumbs, crossing fingers and wishing on fairies wings for great results.

215wilkiec
Apr 24, 2014, 3:56 am

>202 Whisper1: Great news, Linda!

216brenpike
Edited: Apr 24, 2014, 8:24 am

>210 Whisper1: re: the Philly meet-up. I wish I could but it's not in the cards this year. Maybe this will become an annual event :)
Hope you have a good time with our Philly buddies . . .

217tymfos
Apr 24, 2014, 8:23 am

Linda, Yay for the appointment! I just wish your insurance didn't make it all such a horrendous hassle.

Love the photos.

218Cobscook
Apr 24, 2014, 8:16 pm

Hi Linda! So happy that you finally got your appointment. Really sorry you had to go through insurance hell to get it. Sending lots of good thoughts your way that the consultation will bring you good news.

219cal8769
Apr 24, 2014, 9:14 pm

I am 40 minutes from State College and my grandson lives there. Let me know your plans for a meeting, I would enjoy it!

220Whisper1
Apr 25, 2014, 7:23 am

What a beautiful sunny morning!
Will taught Lilly to retrieve the newspaper every morning. As soon as he nears his slippers, she barks excitedly, he opens the door and she runs down the driveway, grabs the paper in her mouth and brings it to the door. She is always ever so proud of herself.

221Whisper1
Apr 25, 2014, 7:29 am

>211 qebo: Thanks for letting me know. I think I'll wait till next year.
>212 ronincats: Good Morning!
>213 SuziQoregon:>214>215 Thanks for your support...It means a lot
>216 brenpike: Brenda, I'll wait for next year when perhaps we can get a larger group. Also, if surgery is planned for summer, then I'll need to concentrate a lot of time at work. I'm still behind from the surgery last fall.
>217 tymfos: >218 Cobscook: I am so thankful for the appointment....and for your outreach..Thanks!
>219 cal8769: I'll be sure to let you know when/if Monica and I make definite plans.

Happy Day To All

222laytonwoman3rd
Edited: Apr 25, 2014, 8:32 am

Clever girl, Lily! Shelties do love to show off their stuff, don't they?

223michigantrumpet
Apr 25, 2014, 8:45 am

>221 Whisper1: Good Girl Lily! That's a wonderful trick! If she could only brew the coffee, too...

224connie53
Apr 25, 2014, 4:08 pm

Ahh, you got the appointment! Very good, Linda!

225tymfos
Apr 25, 2014, 4:35 pm

>220 Whisper1: So Lilly is beautiful AND smart, huh?

>210 Whisper1: >219 cal8769: State College is not so very far from me, either, Linda, and a relatively uncomplicated drive for me, if you'd like to add to the group. . .

226countrylife
Apr 25, 2014, 6:43 pm

Hooray for the appointment! We'll be on pins and needles waiting for an update.

Love the pictures. It finally struck me who you remind me of - Bette Midler!

227Smiler69
Apr 25, 2014, 7:01 pm

Hi Linda, I'm very glad you've gotten encouraging news and have an appointment set. Lilly has every reason to be proud of herself—that's a really neat (and useful, especially in winter) trick!

228tututhefirst
Apr 25, 2014, 8:00 pm

>220 Whisper1: Lily would be so disappointed here in Maine....the paper is only printed once a week, although we can pick up a copy of the "big city" Bangor daily news "downtown" at "the store". Perhaps we could train Lily to logon to our favorite news sites online. Great Picture.

229Whisper1
Edited: Apr 26, 2014, 1:41 am


>222 laytonwoman3rd: True, very true. I think Shelties thrive on happiness

>223 michigantrumpet: Marianne, give Will some time and I have no doubt he will be training her with a new trick. Coffee? I'm not sure...tea maybe

>224 connie53: Thanks Connie. I am going to be ready. I know the time will be limited, so I have my list of questions. I report to the Chairperson of the department, and we discussed options and both feell that if I can have the surgery this summer, it would be better than the beginning of a semester...But, I'm not sure if I have the option to ask when.

>225 tymfos: Terri...It would be lovely to meet you. If you don't mind, I'll wait until after May 9th when I know the date of the surgery. Then, I'll rally all who want to meet together and perhaps we can set a date that works for all or most. Most likely I will stay overnight in State College. It is a three and 1/2 hour drive for me, and it would be better to rest before heading back home. I'll ask others if they need to stay and then will scout the best hotel. I'm getting excited about a possible meet up!

>226 countrylife: Cindy, I frequently am told I look like Bette Midler. I once was followed throughout a store, finally the lady asked for my autograph. I laughed and told her if I was Bette Midler, I would not be shopping at a discount store... The surgeon who performed the three neck fusion surgeries embarrassingly asked me if I knew that his staff members talked among themselves regarding how much I look like the famous MS. Midler. I laughed and smiled. I've also been told I look like Joy Behard (spelling?) I like Bette Midler better though. I wish I had her personality!

>227 Smiler69: Hello Ilana! I hope this week was a good one for you. Since Lilly loves to be outside in the snow for long periods of time, I wonder if she would bother to bring the paper in, or if we did get the paper, it might be very delayed.

>228 tututhefirst: Tina, If we could get Lilly to surf the net, I think I could retire and tour with her on late night shows that have dogs who do neat tricks. One of the cute things she does that I just love is the that when I'm brushing her, I'll ask for her right paw, she holds this in the air and patiently waits for me to brush the fur, then, automatically when I'm finished she puts the right paw down and holds the left paw in the air and then puts it in my hand.

230AuntieClio
Apr 26, 2014, 1:27 am

>220 Whisper1: adore this picture of the fetching Lily

231Whisper1
Apr 26, 2014, 1:40 am

>230 AuntieClio: Thanks Stephanie. Our beloved Sheltie Simon became very sick suddenly. By the time we got her to our vet, and then an animal trauma hospital, we had to make the right decision to blessedly relieve her of her pain.

My partner Will could not stay in the room. I never saw him cry as hard as he did that morning.

The author John Grogan teaches a class in our department at Lehigh University. He was ever so kind when I came to work the next day, and understood that it feels like a kick to the stomach when you grieve as much as we did for Simon.

Will was reluctant to get another dog. I insisted. He resisted and then I watched how Lilly steadily crept into his heart.

232cyderry
Edited: Apr 26, 2014, 1:11 pm

Lilly has been a blessing to both you and Will. On those days when the pain is so bad, Will knows that he has a furry companion that will watch over you with quiet understanding as well as accompany him for a walk.

{{{hugs}}}

233Whisper1
Apr 26, 2014, 5:38 pm

Cheli

How are you feeling?

234cyderry
Apr 26, 2014, 11:46 pm

Great! I may not even have to do PT since I already have full range of motion, low pain levels, and have been managing exercises I had last time. I see the doctor on Tuesday to get the stitches out.

When is your appt?

235Whisper1
Apr 27, 2014, 12:53 am

Cheli,
I have an appointment at Thomas Jefferson May 9th at 9:20...I'm hoping for so much from this visit.

I'm glad you are doing so well. Sounds like California can be handled eh?

236cal8769
Apr 27, 2014, 7:41 am

#225, 229 I was going to suggest an invite to Terri! Lol I don't know a lot about State College except for where to get my grandson to whisk him away to my house but it will be a lot of fun to meet all of you!

237msf59
Apr 27, 2014, 8:55 am

Hi Linda- Just checking in with my pal! I hope you are feeling well and enjoying some very fine books. Hugs!

238jnwelch
Apr 27, 2014, 10:51 pm

Wonderful news about May 9, Linda. How great to get to see someone that good about your pain. Sending positive thoughts your way.

239souloftherose
Apr 29, 2014, 11:17 am

Finally some good news for you Linda - I can't believe how frustrating this process has been for you. I will be keeping you in my thoughts on May 9 and hoping for some more good news from the specialist.

240TinaV95
Apr 29, 2014, 3:59 pm

Woooooo hoooooooo!!! Finally a bit of a breakthrough for you, Linda! I'm so happy that you're finally going to be able to get in to see the specialist!

I know you've got to be relieved and excited both!

Wishing you all the best, my friend!

241AuntieClio
Apr 30, 2014, 1:05 am

Hi Linda. Nothing more to say right now.

242michigantrumpet
Apr 30, 2014, 2:57 am

Just checking in. Know we aren't supposed to wish our lives away, but I'm betting you'd like it to be the 9th already. Have a great Wednesday

243Whisper1
Apr 30, 2014, 8:04 am

>236 cal8769: Carrie, I'll know more regarding attendance at a State College meet up after May 9th and my appointment at Jefferson. I am familiar with State College. I'm find a hotel, if you plan to stay because back and forth driving is too cumbersome. Also, I'll scout out local book stores. More later.

244Whisper1
Apr 30, 2014, 8:05 am

Thanks for stopping by everyone. I so appreciate the good wishes. Happy Thursday, which I now realize it is Thursday, after posting Happy Wednesday on posts.

Geez, I had a steroid injection Tuesday, and I am VERY spacey.

245mckait
Edited: Apr 30, 2014, 8:11 am

It looks like the insurance gods are smiling down on you. Great news. I can't imagine what it would be like if you had no insurance and had this condition, can you? Terrible.

Wishing you the best ~

246SuziQoregon
Apr 30, 2014, 2:42 pm

Hi Linda - just checking in and catching up. Lily is a cutie and a smart one too!

247richardderus
May 1, 2014, 2:51 pm

Happy May Day, Linda!

248michigantrumpet
Edited: May 2, 2014, 10:35 am

Stop by the the creamery in State College and enjoy some ice cream for me. I'm a big fan of the peach and will be along vicariously...

249jolerie
May 2, 2014, 2:03 pm

Hi Linda! Just swinging by to catch up with you before you start a new thread. :)
Hope you and yours have been well!

250AuntieClio
May 3, 2014, 1:14 am

Hey Linda, hope you're doing okay.

Here's a new thread: 75ers book swap

251Matke
May 3, 2014, 1:45 am

Just stopping by to let you know how much I hope that you will have the solution at last, Linda. You've remained amazingly even-tempered through it all, and deserve relief.

252PaulCranswick
May 3, 2014, 4:27 am

Dear Linda, fingers and toes will be crossed across the group that your visit on 9 May yields the results that you are looking for.

I am sure that the breakthrough will help towards an excellent weekend.

253Whisper1
May 3, 2014, 12:58 pm

Hello to all, and BIG thanks for your outreach.

Both the beginning and conclusion of a semester are grueling with long days. It is Saturday and I'm here. The only time I can accomplish something without interruption happens to be a Saturday or Sunday.

I'm way behind from all the months away while healing after surgeries. If I am going to have the next surgery this summer, I need to find the energy to get in a place wherein things are in order.

Hugs, and Happy Days to all!
This topic was continued by Whisper1(Linda) Thread #5 of 2014.