The Unfolding Quotes

“We can only lose what isn’t ours. Anything that can be lost is never a loss. Anything that is ours, can never be taken away.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Prince Charming turned out to be just an accurate description of a psychopath.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Grace is allowing the divine force to move through us.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Someone's great blessing has sprung from a pain that you may not be able to endure. So, envy not the blessings they have, unless you are willing to take on the curses too.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Most of us are third-degree burn victims. Breathe gently in the opposite direction.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“I go with my flow, not yours.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Jealousy will hit you like a ton of bricks when you have a scarcity mentality.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Someone's great blessing has sprung from a pain that you may not be able to endure. So, envy not the blessings they have unless you are willing to take on the curses too.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“We all have buttons that, when pressed, send us into survival mode.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Find yourself... Find yourself... Find yourself and you will find me...
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Observe without bias. Remain grounded.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“We either choose to identify with the projector that controls the vision, or we identify ourselves with the projection. This is the difference between creators and victims.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“That which has no audience loses its power. That which is powerful does not need an audience.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Show me a disease you want to heal, and I will show you what you need to forgive.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“When we know someone’s full story, we can no longer judge them. Judgment blocks our understanding.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Projection vs. Introjection

Anything, and anyone, that is observed, changes with every observer. The meaning the observer attaches to what they are observing is what defines it for them; it is not an absolute truth of that thing or person.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Emotions are, both, a language and a muscle. They need fluency and fortitude.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Emotions are beautiful servants, but deadly masters.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“What we fear most is a missed opportunity.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Guilt can turn into a wasted emotion quite quickly. It does not serve any purpose, if not followed by a rectifying action.

If you feel guilty about your actions, simply take steps to correct the behavior, apologize if you need to, and do not repeat the offense.
Guilt and remorse have two useful functions:


1. We acknowledge the damage we caused to others. 

2. We recognized the negative behaviors we need to stop repeating.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Anticipation breeds anxiety.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“My worth is not tied to someone’s presence. My value comes from within. It is not at someone else’s mercy or charity. I honor and respect myself.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Heartbreak Syndrome is real. Betrayal is a dirty murder done clean.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“You gotta know when to cut your losses, and how to turn them into lessons. Once a lesson is well-received, your loss becomes tuition and your liability becomes an asset.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“When you feel the thorns popping out of your face, you know you are going through the labor pains of releasing shame.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“We have a tendency to sum up someone’s entire character by one truth. We define their lives in one mistake. We condense their entire story in a word. 
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Our worth is inherent, and; therefore, is never on the negotiation table.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“In the freedom from one thing, one becomes enslaved by another.”
― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Regardless of who’s holding the gun, only you can pull the trigger.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution

“Anger, unchecked, turns free spirits into slaves.
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― J.S. Wolfe, The Unfolding: A Journey of Involution