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The Friend by Sigrid Nunez
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3.5 Loss and loneliness are the main themes explored in this novel about friendship and the life of writing. When a woman loses her best friend and mentor to suicide she tries to understand his actions, deal with the loss of this person, and takes on the responsibility of caring for his aged, Great Dane, named Apollo. Apollo is grieving the loss of his former friend and master, and so together they travel a new road.

The writing is elegant, spare, recalling literary entities who were also focused on their pets, finding in them many times more humanity in them than in their regular relationships. The writing is non linear, free flowing thoughts, wandering from their past relationship, to the literary endeavors undertaken by them both, and on to other subjects. Intropsective and melancholy, thoughts turn and twist, the way memories do, and always in the background the ties people have found and loved in their animals. Trivia and insights into animals, their empathy, their understanding, keen sense of smell, the bond forged between them and their human counterparts.

A shorter novel, but I found it fascinating, the way it is pulled together worked for this exceptionally well. We could travel with this young woman as she attempts to come to terms with something unexpected and devastating in her own life. The words, sentences, nothing wasted, we are n her mind, her free flowing thoughts. Her own relationship with the Great Dane and what it comes to mean. This will probably be a book that won't appeal to all, but it did appeal to me. I sometimes sink into these unconventional types of fiction,just float along with the words, and ponder what I'm reading.

ARC from Edelweiss.
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Reading Progress

January 29, 2018 – Started Reading
January 29, 2018 – Shelved
January 30, 2018 –
page 35
16.43%
February 1, 2018 –
page 80
37.56%
February 5, 2018 –
page 120
56.34%
February 14, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Mike (new) - added it

Mike I am very much interested in your thoughts about this one, Diane. Kid Intuition immediately poached this for Mount TBR and I'm hoping it lives up to our expectations.


message 2: by Maureen (new)

Maureen Lovely review Diane, sounds emotional, x


Angela M is taking a break. Wonderful review, Diane.


message 4: by Canadian Jen (new)

Canadian Jen Sounds like an impactful one! Great review, Diane


Diane S ☔ Very interested to see how you will feel about this, Michael. It is very different.

Thank you, Angela, Maureen and Jen.


JanB This sounds like such a sad book, but worthwhile. And I love dogs :) Nice review Diane!


Diane S ☔ Thank you, Jan.


message 8: by Barbara (new)

Barbara Good review Diane. I like touching books about people and their beloved pets.


Diane S ☔ Thank you, Barbara.


Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader I loved your review, Diane! I have this one to read, and I like knowing going into it that it’s a bit unconventional.


message 11: by Mike (new) - added it

Mike Kid Intuition cocked an eyebrow and then punched me in the shoulder. Any niggling doubts I had were washed away by this wonderful review, Diane. I will look forward to picking this one up.


♥ Sandi ❣	Good review Diane. Hoping to get to this one soon.


message 13: by Victoria (new) - added it

Victoria I'd been wondering about this one as stream of consciousness doesn't always appeal, but this beautiful review has me seriously reconsidering.


Carol Wonderful review, Diane. I just downloaded this audio. Your review reminds me somewhat of So Long, See You Tomorrow. That story also had a grieving dog.


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Mike Carol wrote: "Wonderful review, Diane. I just downloaded this audio. Your review reminds me somewhat of So Long, See You Tomorrow. That story also had a grieving dog."

Thank you for mentioning that title, Carol. I had the pleasure of checking out a few reviews and can tell I will absolutely enjoy when I get my hot little hands on it.


Carol Mike wrote: "Carol wrote: "Wonderful review, Diane. I just downloaded this audio. Your review reminds me somewhat of So Long, See You Tomorrow. That story also had a grieving dog."

Thank you for m..."


It's a used book store find and worth the search, in my humble opinion, Mike. The dog may break your heart.


message 17: by Maureen (new) - added it

Maureen Excellent review, Diane!


Jaline Lovely review, Diane! I especially enjoyed your very last sentence - I can relate so very well to that particular mode of reading. :)


message 19: by Myra (new) - rated it 5 stars

Myra White Great review, especially because it focuses on the writing as much as on the theme/story.


message 20: by Christine (new) - added it

Christine Well thought out review, Diane. This appeals to me.


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