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340 pages, Hardcover
First published September 24, 2013
"It was as if Udayan were there, speaking to him, teasing him. He felt their loyalty to one another, their affection, stretched halfway across the world. Stretched perhaps to the breaking point by all that now stood between them, but at the same time refusing to break."
What defines identity once you are away from your center? What defines the center when you are away from our identity?
Is it anger in the obvious betterment seen all around you? Is it shame that you were never really part of it? That you were not part of building it? And instead of building one you have just taken the easier path? Is it pride, perhaps, in your independence? Is it the blustering of the intolerable journalist when he talks about the better ‘systems’? Is it just a sense of loss of all that is left behind?
Wherein lies the center of the modern man’s existence?
Is it in an imaginary village consisting of all that mattered to him as he was growing up - do they ever break that circle? Or is it constantly expanded as you grow? Or is it constantly redefined?
If you don’t have the less developed multitudes (relatives like me) to look upon you from that left-behind circle, will any achievement truly matter in life? Can your center, your point of reference and your identity, only be defined from a transpositional view from below? Or is It from a patriarchal view from above that leaves you smarting?
What of the constant sense that assaults you of not being part of the ‘real’ world - of the world you inhabit - the ones outside your country, your center being somehow artificial? Is it this artificiality that gives you wings? Soaring in a flight of fancy to heights you wouldn’t have dreamed of back where the real things are?
Is it a requirement to step outside the circle to be able to step outside it?
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How do you view the real world then? Are they the dream now that you are living the dream?
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Can you sleep knowing that the dream is never to be dreamt?
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Why wouldn’t you try to dream up some solutions as well then? Why wouldn’t you start believing that your newfound wings would work in that ‘real’ world too? Why wouldn’t you even consider flying back?
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Why wouldn’t you attempt to solve all the problems?
Even if you never attempt it, you know that with these wings of yours, any problem is an easy one, especially those - the ones in that ‘real’ world. The shadow world of reality.
It is not necessary, of course, that the circle of identity had to be a country or a village or a society or family - stepping outside your circle, outside our reality gives you wings and solutions - but the solutions and the wings are never to be allowed back in - you may step back in but you step back in as yourself, without the fancy stuff. And then you have to forget the dream. You can only inhabit the twilight or the sunrise. Never both.
There are some books which once read you have a compulsion to make others read - as if the enjoyment is not complete until it is shared. Until you can see the expression of amazement in the other’s face when they have read too - your enjoyment growing in the realization of theirs.
This book is not like that - it is a quiet pleasure to read but there is no expectation of pleasure from the sharing of it - there is no compulsion to talk about it - there is nothing much to talk about really. It is boring in its own way: a beautiful and boring stream that you saw on your way - you paused to see it but you don’t run home to get your wife to stare at it together.
I was excited to read it, to see how it would capture the times that we have lived through. Times that held so much meaning for us. But, it was not meant to be of the masses and the loudness of the massed struggle - just of the individuals and of the quietness of their desperations — it requires no knowledge of our complicated history or the nuances of our anger that ignited the streets. It was not even remotely concerned about all that…
We are Twilight’s Children, brother, the Midnight’s Children was still some way ahead of us - we are the ones without definition. We were born before the darkness set in, and the day too far off.
After reading The Namesake (the one that you had sent me years ago - ordering me to read it and that you wanted me to get a sense of your University student life), I searched for something new in this one… trying to find what excited the author, trying to get a glimpse into your life - the intimacy with the characters was there - that was expected, that was known; the reality of private lives was there - again known, again expected. What set this apart from the other one? Is it the suffering? But what is suffering? Where was it? I couldn’t see it? Is it necessary that your own anguish has to be less than that of a character’s for you to be able to feel empathy?
But, when I read about this one (in an editorial review), I half thought I could get you to read it... to understand me - another book from the same author. There seemed to be a symmetry to that. But it was not to be. It was not about Bengal, at least not the Bengal that I lived through… it was not to be.
I am told the author grew up in Rhode island - that intimacy is visible. Rhode island becomes more of a home to the reader than his own Bengal. Again, my purposes were not being served by the author.
You had told that you would try to read this before sending it to me. If you managed to complete the book, you must have realized that the book is not very atypical of Lahiri. I am afraid she will find it hard to win another Booker until she breaks out of her own mould or a Booker Committee comes along that doesn’t take the trouble to have read the previous winners.
“No puedo ser padre… después de lo que hecho.”Hay novelas que consiguen cabrearme, como las que me gustan, o me gustarían, a pesar de lo alejado que estoy de aquello que defienden, o las que estropean una maravillosa trama con un final indigno, o las que me defraudan de mala manera en mis altas expectativas. En el polo opuesto están las que me dan pena. Son las que pienso que deberían gustarme, que poseen la calidad suficiente para ello, con las que estoy de acuerdo con su fondo y que, sin embargo, no alcanzan a pellizcarme ni un poquito. Esta es una de ellas.
“Lo había hecho, había hecho lo peor que podía imaginar que pudiera hacer.”Un relato sencillo en su forma y complejo y, a veces, desconcertante en su fondo, sin lirismo ni grandes frases, levantado con sensibilidad e inteligencia sobre fuertes personajes femeninos y una interesante historia, pero que, pese a los buenos ingredientes, algo falla en la receta o en la cocinera o, no descarto nada, en el comensal que esto les cuenta.