dommy

• (UK) IPA^(key): /ˈdɒmi/
• (US) IPA^(key): /ˈdɑmi/

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From dom (“a dominant”) +‎ -y.

dommy (comparative more dommy, superlative most dommy)

1. (BDSM, slang) Dominating, dominant.

   Antonym: subby

   • 2010, Stephanie Clifford-Smith, “A Dynamic Duo”, in Kink: A Straight Girl's Investigation, Crows Nest, N.S.W.: Crows Nest, →ISBN, page 88:

     Rita said she thought she’d be a sub, but found in the scene she was ‘getting a bit dommy’.

   • 2022, Renee Rose, chapter 2, in The Cleaner (Chicago Bratva), →ISBN:

     I don’t usually get that wet, but apparently, all I was missing before was a hot dommy man slapping my ass.

   • 2023, Jane Henry, chapter 16, in Adoration (Montavio Brotherhood), →ISBN:

     He anchors his hands on his hips, one of my favorite moves of his, because he looks all dommy.

Abbreviation of domicile, ultimately from Latin domus (“house, home”).^[1]

dommy (plural dommies)

1. (African-American Vernacular, dated) Someone's house or home.
   • 1946, Milton “Mezz” Mezzrow, Bernard Wolfe, “Quit Foolin’ with That Comb”, in Really the Blues, New York, N.Y.: Random House, book 1 (1899–1923: A Nothin’ but a Child), page 50:

     Harry Shapiro was crazy about musicians so we headed straight for his dommy.