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Man’s Search for Meaning
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Aug 26, 2008
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I read this book for the first time during my senior year in high school. The year prior, I had gone to Germany for spring break with some fellow classmates. During the trip, we spent a day visiting a former WWII concentration camp in Dachau. As one might expect, this visit had a profound effect on me. I had of course read and knew about the atrocities that occurred under the Nazi regime, but to actually see a camp in person is a deeply haunting and disturbing experience. Perhaps for this reason, Frankl's book affected me even more deeply than it otherwise might have.
The book is divided into two parts. The first section recounts in vivid detail Frankl's horrifying experiences as a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp. Frankl, a former psychiatrist, also describes his observations of other prisoners and what he felt to be the main way in which people tried to cope with the insurmountable obstacles they faced. He found that those who could find meaning or purpose in their suffering were the ones who also seemed better able to find the strength to go on. As I recall, Frankl personally found his purpose in the hope of someday being able to see his wife again - a hope that was strong enough to get him through the daily horrors he faced.
The second half of this book is devoted to the therapy he developed based on the search for meaning, which he calls logotherapy. The basic premise is that those who can find meaning in their suffering are better able to cope with what would otherwise be a struggle too hard to bear. As one who majored in psychology, I found this section as fascinating as the first.
I have read this book at least three times now, and it is one of the few books I can say truly changed my life. I am ever grateful that I have the wisdom of this book to fall back upon when needed.
Several years ago, at a very young age (in my 20s), I became ill with a disease that left me bedridden and barely able to speak above a whisper. Now 36, I am still bedridden and fighting the same battle. It is Frankl's reminder to find meaning and purpose in suffering (which I found in the love of my fiancé and my hope of recovery) that has helped me to get through each difficult day. As Frankl tells us, "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
I highly recommend this book!!
The book is divided into two parts. The first section recounts in vivid detail Frankl's horrifying experiences as a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp. Frankl, a former psychiatrist, also describes his observations of other prisoners and what he felt to be the main way in which people tried to cope with the insurmountable obstacles they faced. He found that those who could find meaning or purpose in their suffering were the ones who also seemed better able to find the strength to go on. As I recall, Frankl personally found his purpose in the hope of someday being able to see his wife again - a hope that was strong enough to get him through the daily horrors he faced.
The second half of this book is devoted to the therapy he developed based on the search for meaning, which he calls logotherapy. The basic premise is that those who can find meaning in their suffering are better able to cope with what would otherwise be a struggle too hard to bear. As one who majored in psychology, I found this section as fascinating as the first.
I have read this book at least three times now, and it is one of the few books I can say truly changed my life. I am ever grateful that I have the wisdom of this book to fall back upon when needed.
Several years ago, at a very young age (in my 20s), I became ill with a disease that left me bedridden and barely able to speak above a whisper. Now 36, I am still bedridden and fighting the same battle. It is Frankl's reminder to find meaning and purpose in suffering (which I found in the love of my fiancé and my hope of recovery) that has helped me to get through each difficult day. As Frankl tells us, "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
I highly recommend this book!!
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wow..truly moving..
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I hope and pray that you are fine. Lovely to see someone find so much meaning out of some literature. I ll surely take up the book. And may I add you as a friend
Thank you. :) I hope you find it insightful and inspiring. Yes, you may add me as a friend... thanks for asking. :) I don't tend to write reviews anymore though! Hope you are well.
you said you found a meaning and purpose if suffering in your finance and hope to recover, I do respect that, that is what gets you through but it doesn't explain the purpose or meaning behind your suffering
why are you suffering
what is the end meaning to your suffering
what will you achieve
I am more concerned in finding the true meanings behind my suffering and if there is some, that actually something to help me get through
I hope you can clarify this for me please
thanks
why are you suffering
what is the end meaning to your suffering
what will you achieve
I am more concerned in finding the true meanings behind my suffering and if there is some, that actually something to help me get through
I hope you can clarify this for me please
thanks
I just today noticed the additional comments here. Thanks to all for your kind words!!
Tanya, thanks for your question. I should perhaps change the wording in my review to say that I found meaning in my life despite suffering, and not in the suffering itself. That is, the way I endure my situation and find the courage to go on is through the love of my fiance (who suffers from the same disease) and the hope of someday recovering.
Some have tried to convince me that suffering is a means to better oneself and grow stronger, and while I understand and do believe this is true to some extent, I have a hard time wrapping my mind around this degree of unending suffering for decades on end. So, finding meaning in something like that has indeed proven difficult.
But I'm not sure that's the argument Frankl was making anyway. I think he was saying we must search for meaning in our lives to endure whatever inevitable suffering we may face, even if not in the suffering itself. Frankl found purpose by focusing on his wife and the hope of seeing her again; I'm not sure he actually sought to find meaning in his experience of the concentration camp itself. It's finding meaning in life despite that suffering that gives us the strength to go on.
That's what I took from it, anyway. :) As for your specific questions, I am afraid I don't have answers. I do not know why I've been given this horrible disease to battle vs. being allowed a full life, or what the end meaning of it all is. As for what I can achieve from it, I suppose that would be my attitude and how I choose to face it. And really, that's a pretty huge accomplishment. :)
Hope that helps clarify. Thanks for the discussion.
Tanya, thanks for your question. I should perhaps change the wording in my review to say that I found meaning in my life despite suffering, and not in the suffering itself. That is, the way I endure my situation and find the courage to go on is through the love of my fiance (who suffers from the same disease) and the hope of someday recovering.
Some have tried to convince me that suffering is a means to better oneself and grow stronger, and while I understand and do believe this is true to some extent, I have a hard time wrapping my mind around this degree of unending suffering for decades on end. So, finding meaning in something like that has indeed proven difficult.
But I'm not sure that's the argument Frankl was making anyway. I think he was saying we must search for meaning in our lives to endure whatever inevitable suffering we may face, even if not in the suffering itself. Frankl found purpose by focusing on his wife and the hope of seeing her again; I'm not sure he actually sought to find meaning in his experience of the concentration camp itself. It's finding meaning in life despite that suffering that gives us the strength to go on.
That's what I took from it, anyway. :) As for your specific questions, I am afraid I don't have answers. I do not know why I've been given this horrible disease to battle vs. being allowed a full life, or what the end meaning of it all is. As for what I can achieve from it, I suppose that would be my attitude and how I choose to face it. And really, that's a pretty huge accomplishment. :)
Hope that helps clarify. Thanks for the discussion.
laurel,your comment is fine.The book has different meanings for every one.Don't change your review to appease people.You were in the moment when you wrote that,truth! ;-)
You already motivated so many people to read this book, which would definitely help them doing something meaningful......
You already motivated so many people to read this book, which would definitely help them doing something meaningful......
Viktor Franklin was one impressive person.certainly he made an impression on me. unlike quite a few doctors I have known he had humility and heroic compassion. God, whether he or she or it be moslem, Jew, christian, Mormon or scientologist will surely bless this man for his candid, unstintingly self aware, brutally honest portrait of human history's signature atrocity
I hope you have recovered Laurel. My prayers and best wishes for you. It's a wonderful book and your review is excellent! God bless you!
Probably few books have stood one particular test of time, e.g., required reading in Social Psychology classes around the world, as has Frankl for a half-century strong.
You summarized the book perfectly well. I like the fact that you also added the impact the book had on you which I believe should be the purpose of every book. I am glad you found purpose and meaning in life despite life's challenge which you have no control over. I believe no matter what happens your feelings towards it is what matters most.
Astounding review. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you never lose this hope you so resiliently hold.
The impact that this book has had in your life journey is inspirational. Your story too is a source of hope and encouragement. Glad that you are still able to live meaningfully despite the hurdles that you are facing. May God bless you.
Really inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. It is motivating me to read this book. Take care and God bless you :)
I too am fighting painful illnesses, your review has inspired me to read this book, not just read but own this book... I am sooo looking forward to finding and discovering new (to me) ways to positively cope & deal with the many different issues I currently deal with 24/7. When is your book coming out? (Seriously!). You sound like you handle your debilitating illness so well!!! Do you have any other suggestions for me? I could seriously use some guidance, I’ve spent thousands trying to fix myself to no avail. The last thing I’m trying is I’m doing a cleanse right now (bathroom issues), & then I’m doing a parasitic cleanse, I’ve changed my eating habits (2wks in), then a Naturopathic Doctor. If this doesn’t work, I’m going to try food grade Hydrogen Peroxide, & see if that helps after this I’m out of things to try as I’ve done EVERYTHING I can think of. I wish you healed and healthy asap!!! I’ll be praying for you!!!
God bless you & yours
May your dreams come to fruition!
Tracy
God bless you & yours
May your dreams come to fruition!
Tracy
Thanks to all for the kind comments! Tracy -- I am so sorry you are dealing with chronic illness as well. I think you will find Frankl's book helpful. I would also suggest any book by Toni Bernhard (How to Be Sick, How to Live Well with Pain and Chronic Illness, etc). I've only read one of her books, but I hear all of them are helpful. I can't offer much in the way of treatments, but I do hope you find something that helps you and eases your symptoms. I think the most important thing is not to lose hope!! Thanks again for your kind comments. Wishing you well!
You should write a book, I would totally read about how you yourself can describe how you have made it through your suffering, yes you had inspiration from this, but you have found your own way as well and have an very unique story to tell!!! I'm gonna follow you!!
Than you for the kind comments, Tracy (and for the follow!). Though I haven't written in awhile, I do have a blog. My last post was actually about trying to find purpose when bedridden and so limited. You can read it here, if interested:
http://www.dreamsatstake.com/2017/01/...
http://www.dreamsatstake.com/2017/01/...
Thank you for the detailed review and sharing your part. I think I will for sure be reading this book now. Your attitude is an inspiration for me. Sending lots of love, strength and best wishes your way 🧡🧡🧡
I hope and pray that you get better. What you said is very profound. Often when I consciously made suffering life decisions I chose to read books about the Halocaust. It humbled me a lot but did little to help me understand my own decisions. Perhaps with this book, I'll be able to both read about the Halocaust and allow it to help me make choices that with life's journey in mind.
Dear Laurel, thank you for sharing your personal story and comment about the book as well. So happy to hear you are more than just coping and doing well by finding meaning in the suffering. There is much for me to learn. Your story could be an inspiration too... Hope you have considered writing. Wish you a big success and happiness, all the way from coldest capital city in the world - Ulaanbaatar (PS: Mongolia supported Soviets in WWII with horses and food, clothing, etc)
Your review made me cry. Thank you for sharing Laurel and hope by now you are well on your way to recovery.
Laurel—Thank you for your review—by writing it, and all of us appreciating it—you have given of yourself-and that has meaning for your readers. I hope you are getting well with each new day...
Wow - Laurel, like Viktor, you are amazing and inspirational in your attitude towards life during suffering! I wish you good health and recovery x
... Chính các lý do độc đáo và duy nhất ấy - ở người này là sự sáng tạo trong công việc và ở người kia là tình thương con - đã mang lại ý nghĩa cho sự tổn tại của hai tù nhân ấy. Khi nhận ra rằng không ai có thể thay thế được vị trí của mình, con người buộc phải có trách nhiệm cho sự tồn tại và tiếp tục cuộc sống của mình. Một người trở nên thức tỉnh khi thấy mình có trách nhiệm với sự trìu mến trông đợi của một ai đó, hoặc có trách nhiệm với một công việc còn chưa hoàn thành, thì người ấy sẽ không bao giờ có thể ném bỏ cuộc đời mình. Người đó hiểu được "lý do" cho sự tồn tại của mình, và sẽ có thể chịu đựng được bất cứ điều gì...
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Very insightful review Laurel. Thank you for taking the time to write it so many years ago. Frankl's messages along with your application of his views are admirable. I wish you well.
me gusta como se busca una respuesta en la logoterapia a esos problemas que el ser humano se va acostumbrando, de una manera rapida y resultados eficientes.
idk I'm in a state of breakdown and in a mood to read something deep an d powerful strong enough to negate my feelings. You have described it beautifully and seems like a perfect book to me.
Loving your Last line Laurel " Everything Can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances ,to choose one's own way.
Stay Healthy and you will soon recover 😊
Stay Healthy and you will soon recover 😊
I am deeply touched by this book and very moved by your searching for life, too. I wish you all the best and hope everyone can find their purpose of living.