L Powers (Bookish_Mum)'s Reviews > MILF: Motherhood, Identity, Love and F*ckery

MILF by Paloma Faith
(Motherhood, Identity, Love and F*ckery)
Rating: 3/5
Release Date: 6 June 2024

In this impassioned, witty, and bold manifesto, Paloma Faith delves into the myriad challenges confronting women today. From navigating puberty and sexual awakening to confronting the pressures of patriarchy and the myth of the Supermum, she fearlessly explores these issues.

Infused with Paloma's trademark humour and unfiltered honesty, the book offers a poignant reflection on the struggles of IVF and the early stages of motherhood, celebrating the often unseen labor of women.

Transitioning from discussions on identity and the impact of motherhood to the elusive concept of being a 'good mother,' Paloma advocates for embracing imperfection and prioritising self-care. She shares her own journey of growth alongside her mother, highlighting the evolution of parent-child relationships into adulthood.

Through Paloma's personal anecdotes, readers glimpse the complexities of balancing romantic love, heartbreak, and dating with the responsibilities of motherhood, offering a nuanced portrayal of life's joys and challenges.

Despite my initial anticipation, I found myself disappointed upon reading this book. While I expected a personal exploration of Paloma's experiences, it felt more like a one-sided sermon directed at the reader. The lack of interaction between Paloma and the audience left me feeling as though she was solely focused on imposing her opinions rather than fostering a meaningful connection.

Although the book is a quick read, I'm hesitant to recommend it based on my own experience.

Thank you so much to NetGalley, Ebury Publishing, Penguin Random House | Ebury Spotlight, and the author, Paloma Faith, for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest and fair review.