Claire's Reviews > The Soul of a Woman

This was a short read and as the author herself says, it's more of "an informal chat" than any other label one might put against it.

Isabelle Allende looks back over her life from the viewpoint of her gender, as a woman and looks at how the family she was born into, and their circumstances contributed to her own growth and development and attitudes.

Her mother Panchita was abandoned by her husband in Peru with two toddlers and newborn (Isabel), forcing her to return to her family in Chile. It is this circumstance she ascribes her rebellion against male authority to. A fear and darkness in childhood, a pre-verbal trauma and conscious frustration as she aged, that ensured she would do everything in her power not to inhabit that vulnerable space women so easily fall into.

Of course she is thwarted by her own passion(s) and marries a number of times, but she becomes obsessed with justice, develops a visceral reaction to male chauvinism and is so shocked by an experience she had in India, a random roadside breakdown event, that she creates a foundation for vulnerable girls, today run by her daughter in law.

At times the commentary seemed superficial, almost as if written too quickly, there were gaps, assertions without the facts, anecdotes, generalisations etc about women, men, feminism, the patriarchy, but then there were the silver linings, the moments of truth when she'd strike a chord that vibrated and made one pause.

Being in the later years of her life, she also reflects on that era, on the post retirement years and her attitude towards them, how she sees that she has changed, what she is and isn't prepared to compromise on.

It's provocative, insightful and an invitation to join the conversation and the action, to continue the work towards empowerment of women on their own terms and not as defined by the other. An optimist who drives a hard bargain, she also is one who says yes to life, prepared to take risks and then manage the consequences.

Though it was a galley and I shouldn't quote from it, and it's difficult to anyway as every 'fi' is removed and often the beginnings of sentences, I finish with her thoughts, which were inspired by her reading or perhaps listening to Jampolsky on forgiveness.

More energy is needed to sustain ill feelings than to forgive. The key to contentment is forgiveness of others and ourselves.

And asks the question "What kind of world do we want?