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An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness
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Jul 05, 2007
bookshelves: crazypeoplememoirs, psychology, good-more-than-once, would-rec, absolutely-must-read
i was reading some reviews of the book written by people that disliked this.
i just want to say, that for a person suffering from mental illness, the fact that you know jamieson's full CV and her academic struggles is important. it's more of a - look, she was wildly successful, and dealing with this illness, and she finally came to terms with it, and now she's okay - and still wildly successful.
i also want to say how brave it was for her to write this under her own name. it does a lot to irradicate the stigma against mental illness, and no doubt she met people in academia who had read her book but never met her, and formed opinions that might be less than true. she really kind of put herself on the line for this, and i have to respect that.
those things aside, this book came to me at a very important time in my life. (hence i remember the date i read it so well.) it was recommended by a psychiatrist i really respect, and. i'll admit, i was in the depths of a serious depressive episode, so perhaps it meant more to me then, but the book gave me hope. because i want a professional career, i want to be well respected in my field - and jamieson proved that it was possible. that you could recover from the depths and haul yourself out.
she doesn't paint herself as a victim either, which was my main problem with Prozac Nation. she has this illness, and she finds she can't ignore it any longer. she doesn't blame biology or bad family situations - she just realizes that if she wants her life, she's going to have to make some changes. she writes academically, but accessibly, and she doesn't take the easy way out.
i've read everything she's written, but this is perhaps my favorite. becuse it shows that you can be honest about your mental health, and still be okay. it's written beautifully, and i go back to it time and again when i'm feeling down - even though i am not bipolar - and again, i think that speaks to the strengths of this memoir.
i just want to say, that for a person suffering from mental illness, the fact that you know jamieson's full CV and her academic struggles is important. it's more of a - look, she was wildly successful, and dealing with this illness, and she finally came to terms with it, and now she's okay - and still wildly successful.
i also want to say how brave it was for her to write this under her own name. it does a lot to irradicate the stigma against mental illness, and no doubt she met people in academia who had read her book but never met her, and formed opinions that might be less than true. she really kind of put herself on the line for this, and i have to respect that.
those things aside, this book came to me at a very important time in my life. (hence i remember the date i read it so well.) it was recommended by a psychiatrist i really respect, and. i'll admit, i was in the depths of a serious depressive episode, so perhaps it meant more to me then, but the book gave me hope. because i want a professional career, i want to be well respected in my field - and jamieson proved that it was possible. that you could recover from the depths and haul yourself out.
she doesn't paint herself as a victim either, which was my main problem with Prozac Nation. she has this illness, and she finds she can't ignore it any longer. she doesn't blame biology or bad family situations - she just realizes that if she wants her life, she's going to have to make some changes. she writes academically, but accessibly, and she doesn't take the easy way out.
i've read everything she's written, but this is perhaps my favorite. becuse it shows that you can be honest about your mental health, and still be okay. it's written beautifully, and i go back to it time and again when i'm feeling down - even though i am not bipolar - and again, i think that speaks to the strengths of this memoir.
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You will love it's complexity both in its look at the mind and at a painful and empowering dx. It's also simple and approachable at the same time.
Do u think smeone suffering from bipolar can be agreat spouse. If u knw smeone has this disorder would u still go ahead n tie the knot?
Murtaza wrote: "Do u think smeone suffering from bipolar can be agreat spouse. If u knw smeone has this disorder would u still go ahead n tie the knot?"
yes. with guidelines and a sit down confo about triggers and the typical symptom profile. NO drinking. working out. a schedule. a part time.
yes. with guidelines and a sit down confo about triggers and the typical symptom profile. NO drinking. working out. a schedule. a part time.
I really love your review. This is one of my all-time favorite books. Like you, I was given this book by a psychiatrist. Except I was given it just after I was diagnosed as Bipolar II when I was 16. It really helped me cope and understand that the dx isn't a death notice. It's part of what makes me who I am. And now I'm halfway through getting my MA and I just received my first B+ in my collegiate career (which really irks me). So it really is possible to lead a productive, successful life. I think Jamison is amazing for writing her story and someday I hope I can do the same.
I saw some comments about how people don't find her likable, so I was happy to read your review. Bipolar disorder does not allow someone to fit neatly into the likable protagonist role, and I too find her to be very brave. She speaks so honestly of these dark parts of mental illness, and the poor reviews that discredit this memoir solely because they did not like her depicts the darkness many face when trying to seek help. As someone who also lives mental illness, I see your review as validation--some people may not like me (including myself most often), but there are people who will at least try to understand.
Great Review! I have Bipolar 1 and rapid cycling disorder and been on meds for 8 years now. It is incredibly hard to live with, even with medication. I found Kay's book very helpful. It gave me hope. I could identify with 90% of her feelings, emotions, moods etc... It is inspiring to know that someone like her, famous, smart, successful, business driven has managed to accept and learned to live with it. My struggles are very similar to hers throughout the years since she's been diagnosed and it is a huge relieve to know I am not alone or "crazy", and that what's been happening to me since my diagnoses 8 years ago, is a real treatable illness. There certainly is light at the end of the tunnel!
so … ahh … where are these less than stellar/favourable reviews? i prefer to be an informed reader through digesting the relevant information to come to my own conclusions rather than to be 'informed' solely by those concluded through only the one perception presented here; five star reviewers.
(:-]) i'd like to read aaaaaalllll the pertinent reviews please; or at least a comparable representative sample.
thanks in advance,
Carl
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(:-]) i'd like to read aaaaaalllll the pertinent reviews please; or at least a comparable representative sample.
thanks in advance,
Carl
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I was diagnosed with bipolar disoder type 1, and I am looking for a goodbook to read. My psychitrist told me to research about the deseas and, i think Ineed more support than just the appointments; It's hard when people around don't understand quite well what is it or don't even accept it.
Ps: yes, people diagnosed with bipoler disorder can be good spouses, they just need medication and comprehension, ok, and love, lots, like anyone else.
Ps: yes, people diagnosed with bipoler disorder can be good spouses, they just need medication and comprehension, ok, and love, lots, like anyone else.
This is a brave, bold book that I recommend as a read for everyone both familiar with manic depression and unfamiliar with the condition (though I think many would be surprised about how the illness is so close to their lives daily even though they are not aware of it). It sheds light on not only mental illness itself with honest personal insight on the effects clinically and personally but also challenges the misconception and bias that make the struggle worse for the afflicted and in society as a whole. The question it raises about ethics of treatment and the future of treatment are important for people to review. It's takeaways should be integrated companies just like anti-harassment training. I think educators, politicians, and all medical and care specialists should read this book too.
Martha, I think that what you’ve written in parentheses in your comment on Stephanie’s review is key. I started reading this book after it was recommended to me by one in my treating team. I’ve been repeatedly told that to demonstrate my wellness, I have to finish tasks; but they have to be valued by those who choose to perceive me as unwell. I discontinued reading “An Unquiet Mind” because I found Kay’s history so akin to my own that I bought the book for Dad: He finished it quickly and spoiled the end for me. I was diagnosed with bipolar to assist with getting me off the drugs that were administered to me after I finished up work for 2016 and went a bit psycho. I was working hard on wedding planning with my now husband when I broke for Christmas too. I was released from a mental institution two days before we tied the knot after successfully appealing my incarceration. It is very clear to me that Bipolar is a great way to describe the highs and lows felt when feeling absolutely connected with life’s meaning and the crisis of Nihilism respectively. The drugs made my delusions worse and now I’m a happy wife, I’m not on any medication and drink alcoholic beverages such that I don’t exceed the Blood Alcohol Concentration legal limit of 0.05%. I’ll get the Bipolar label removed from my head or will die trying. Kay gave in. I understand that’s an option, but as time passes it become more obvious to me that choice amounts to a cop-out. The future awaits!
Well, as a mathematician I am ok with discontinuities. I just finished Kay's book. I found it a more engaging read now that I'm not on quetiapine and sodium valproate, as I think I was at the time my husband added it to iBooks on my phone. I'd love the opportunity to talk to Kay about her strong opinions, because they seem to staunchly oppose mine. My core belief is that I don't like core beliefs. It's all relative, even if our objectives are the same- peace :)
Stephanie, I feel the same way and found the book through my trusted psychiatrist. It was amazing to see her success in the field. But what you said about stigma is beyond true. After I had some time to get better I went to nursing school. I have now been a psychiatric nurse for 8 years. The first time I told my story to a coworker I thought I could trust, my business was spread all the way up to thE CEO who decided I needed to be suspended and seen by one of their therapist to determine if I was stable enough to treat patients. I was stunned. Shouldn’t I be an example that mental illness can be dealt with and I can live a normal worthwhile life. It truly was heartbreaking. So now I keep my mouth shut about it. Such a shame....
I too know the stigma of mental illness: I was diagnosed as an affective schizophrenic with bipolar depression 27 years ago and have lived through many many drug changes, psychiatrists etc. ILately I have had bouts of mania and have inconsistencies in thoughts ie switching from one “topic” to another so quickly I don’t make sense to myself or to whom I’m speaking. I write better than I can talk One of my biggest problems with insensitive and ignorant people is that they interrupt me when I am simply trying to get it all out so to speak and they interrupt me in mid sentence thinking they are just helping me OMG what could have taken three minutes to say takes ten minutes in explanation!! It’s called making conversation!!! I talk to myself and make facial gestures... I know I’m weird but please do not be afraid of me I’m very friendly just like you! Some people are heavy some have too much sex some drink too much some talk too muc etc Folks everyone is a little off in the head in this world we are all here to get to the same place called heaven which is open to anyone who just keeps plugging away has a good heart and tries his/her best is safe productive and kind. By the way I taught third grade for 26 of those 27 years without a complaint from parents or children as explained to the man who hired me and to parents at back to school night I have “facial tendencies”
Great and brave an useful and informative. Nontheless in memoirs there is always the risk to detail more than necessary...