Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing Quotes

“And if you’re going to blame your parents for the bad stuff, you also have to give them credit for the good stuff.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing

“I think you actually have to have all of your dreams come true to realize they are the wrong dreams.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“if you spend too much time looking in the rearview mirror, you will crash your car.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Do you know what St. Peter says to everyone who tries to get into heaven?"
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"Peter says, 'Don't you have any scars?' And when most would respond proudly, 'Well, no, no I don't,' Peter says, 'Why not? Was there nothing worth fighting for?”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“I’m not the biggest fan of confrontation. I ask a lot of questions. Just not out loud.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“I am me. And that should be enough, it always has been enough. I was the one who didn’t get that. And now I do. I’m an actor, I’m a writer. I’m a person. And a good one at that. I want good things for myself, and others, and I can continue to work for these things. There is a reason I’m still here. And figuring out why is the task that has been put in front of me. And it will be revealed. There is no rush, no desperation. Just the fact that I am here, and I care about people, is the answer. Now when I wake up, I wake up curious, wondering what the world has in store for me, and I for it. And that’s enough to go on.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“It is very odd to live in a world where if you died, it would shock people but surprise no one.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“God is everywhere—you just have to clear your channel, or you’ll miss it.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“I sometimes do want to tell God to go fuck himself for making my road so hard.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Now, all these years later, I’m certain that I got famous so I would not waste my entire life trying to get famous. You have to get famous to know that it’s not the answer. And nobody who is not famous will ever truly believe that.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing

“Reality is an acquired taste.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“You are everything I never knew that I always wanted.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Drinkers think they are trying to escape, but really they are trying to overcome a mental disorder they didn't know they had.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“And have you ever stood on the water's edge and tried to stop the wave? It goes on regardless of what we do, regardless of how hard we try. The ocean reminds us that we are powerless in comparison.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“The man takes the drink, the drink takes all the rest.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“My mind is out to kill me, and I know it. I am constantly filled with a lurking loneliness, a yearning, clinging to the notion that something outside of me will fix me. But I had had all that the outside had to offer!”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“When someone does something nice for someone else, I see God. But you can’t give away something you don’t have. So, I try to improve myself daily. When those moments come and I am needed, I’ve worked out my shit, and do what we are all here for, which is simply to help other people.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Martin Sheen turned to me and said, 'Do you know what Saint Peter says to everyone who tries to get into heaven?' When I looked blankly, the man who was once president said, 'Peter says, 'Don't you have any scars?' And when most would respond proudly, 'Well no, no I don't,' Peter says, 'Why not? Was there nothing worth fighting for?”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“River was a beautiful man, inside and out—too beautiful for this world, it turned out. It always seems to be the really talented guys who go down. Why is it that the original thinkers like River Phoenix and Heath Ledger die, but Keanu Reeves still walks among us? River was a better actor than me; I was funnier. But I certainly held my own in our scenes—no small feat, when I look back decades later. But more important, River just looked at the world in a different way than we all did, and that made him fascinating, and charismatic, and, yes, beautiful, but not in a Gap ad kinda way (though he was that, too)—in a there-is-no-one-else-in-the-world-like-him kind of way. Not to mention he was rocketing to stardom, yet you would never know it.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Being in a kitchen always brings to mind God. He showed up to me in a kitchen, of course, and in doing so, saved my life. God is always there for me now, whenever I clear my channel to feel his awesomeness. It’s hard to believe, given everything, that he still shows up for us mortals, but he does, and that’s the point: love always wins.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“The one thing I got right was that I never gave up, I never raised my hands and said, “That’s enough, I can’t take it anymore, you win.” And because of that, I stand tall now, ready for whatever comes next. Someday you, too, might be called upon to do something important, so be ready for it. And when whatever happens, just think, What would Batman do? and do that.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“My grandfather, the wonderful Alton L. Perry, grew up around an alcoholic father, and as a result, he never touched a drink in his life, all ninety-six long, wonderful years of it. I am not my grandfather.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“You never know where one thing will lead... I guess the lesson is, take every opportunity, because something might come of it.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“If I had to do it all over again, would I still audition for Friends? You bet your ass I would. Would I drink again? You bet your ass I would. If I didn’t have alcohol to soothe my nerves and help me have fun, I would have leaped off a tall building sometime in my twenties.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing

“Find a friend who’ll quit something with you—you’ll be amazed what that does for a friendship.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing

“Nobody ever thinks that something really bad is going to happen to them. Until it does.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“No secret gets worse just because it has been told.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“But addiction wakes up before you do, and it wants you alone. Alcoholism will win every time. As soon as you raise your hand and say, “I’m having a problem,” alcohol sneers, You’re gonna say something about it? Fine, I’ll go away for a while. But I’ll be back. It never goes away for good.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“Know more, say less.”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“I wasn't fully me yet; I was just parts of me (and not the best parts, either).”
― Matthew Perry, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing